its this boy in ma class i like him, i want to talk to him but i dont think he will talk to a girl like me because im heavy set what should i do?
2006-09-25 14:33:14 · 13 answers · asked by chocolatedrop 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just start a casual conversation and see how he reacts. If you sit near each other, try dropping something, then pull a "Could you grab that or me? Thanks. Hey do you know..." and ask a question about the class or something. Just be very casual when you first talk to him, and dont do anything creepy like stare at him for the whole class. Guys are surprising sometimes, they aren't all the ***holes we see them as. If he decides you aren't worth his time because of your weight, then move on. People respond to confidence, so as long as you show that you have confidence, you will be interesting enough to talk to.
2006-09-25 14:44:34 · answer #1 · answered by UnstableSub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with just a casual "hi, how are you?" Then build up to conversations about the class you have together. Just go slow.
Also build some self esteem. Just because you are "heavy set" doesn't mean you are less worthy of attention.
2006-09-25 21:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by gizbit76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be shy honey. A lot of men like woman that are, should I say, well built. Just be yourself and approach him with confidence. Ask him if he'd like to have lunch with you, or maybe you'll see him doing something that interests' you as well and you could start a conversation that way. The only way to find out is to give life a shot. Be strong and know that God loves you too.
Good luck.
2006-09-25 21:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you'll never know if you don't say something to him. Just start off with little things, like "Hi" or find out a sports team he likes and mention something about the game and ask HIS opinion so he says something back to you. If he likes you, he will continue on with the conversation. if not, don't worry- there are plenty others out there!
2006-09-25 21:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know that he would not date you, did he tell you that he doesn't like heavy girls. Just because you are heavy who's to say that you are not pretty
2006-09-25 21:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by Z B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are so immature at this age that i would just forget about him!sorry to let you down but the true hurts.i would just admire from a far if i were u!sorry hun!
2006-09-25 21:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by minnesota sweetheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are judging him. He may want to talk with you. He may not want to date you right way, but there are people who don't care for your looks. Don't be pessimistic, give yourself and also him a chance to say, at least HELLO to each other.
2006-09-25 21:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by Ms.Cook 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you will never know unless you try....just talk to him what do you have to lose?? you can start by saing hi and if he says hi back thats a strat every day add a little more small talk. ex...... next day hi ,,hows it going?/.
2006-09-25 21:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he don`t want to talk to you just cause of how you look then don`t even bother taking the time trying to talk to him.. it`s not worth it
2006-09-25 21:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-25 21:38:38 · answer #10 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋