I have been with this girl for 4 years. At one time I was crazy about her. She liked me too but I guess I liked her more than she liked me. Then we spoke abt marriage and we decided we would get married in 2005. But then I didnt keep my word. And now I am not sure abt her and have tried to break up with her a few times but she ends up calling me and I just cant see her cry and the pain she is suffering. But somehow I dont feel the same. Maybe its not her just part of my personality as I am pretty self centered. Now I have to make this toughest decision of my life and I am not sure if I want to marry her. I sometimes feel she has been so loyal to me and has stayed with me for 4 years and she will be by by side forever and loves me so much that I should marry her. My family doesnt like her much and marrying her would put a strain on my relationship with my family. Is she the one??? Should I marry her? If I have to break up with her, how should I do it so it will be less hurtful?
2006-09-25 14:09:16 · 6 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not marry her. You can tell you dont want to that will just make it hurt more for her later when you have no choice but to divorce her. The best way to break up with her is just tl talk to her and tell her how you feel. You dont have to be an *** about it just try to do it nicely but i really think you should from the looks of the sitiuation.
2006-09-25 14:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't underestimate the influences that your family can have on your relationship/marriage. If they don't like her and if your relationship with her is shaky to start with, then your marriage ( if you marry her) ain't gonna last. Having said that, she seems like a nice loyal woman and girls like that are hard to find, and you are a silly man to not appreciate that, but if your heart says no, then it's best for you both to not get married. There are three important events in life: birth, death, and marriage. First two you have no control over. The last one, you do. Choose wisely.
2006-09-25 21:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by dominoeffect1984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2006-09-25 21:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to here way you feel i hope get better ok
2006-09-25 21:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was the one you wouldnt have to ask.
2006-09-25 21:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by ::Hannah:: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-09-25 21:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by celeste a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋