2006-09-25 14:09:15 · 11 answers · asked by beauty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simple. You are shy, and that's OK, because you don't have to do the talking. If you did, you'd probably just bore him to death anyway. What guys like is talking about themselves. All you have to do is lead him into it. Ask him about his interests, or what he thinks he's good at. Anything you can think of to ask him about himself will work. Later on, he will want you to talk about yourself, but be patient. When he takes your bait and starts talking about himself, listen! You just might find that you are interested in some of the same things. That's what he's looking for. If you're not sure you are interested, try it, you might like it! Don't worry about being shy, just let him talk.
2006-09-25 14:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest getting into one or two of the same clubs or activities that are available in your area, and joining these together. It will give you lots of automoatic common ground. If that doesn't appeal to you, read up a bit on a few subjects you know he likes and start a conversation that way.
My best advice - talk about what interests you. If he's the guy for you, he'll listen and respond by telling you about his likes/dislikes. The more you two get to know each other, the more you will find to discuss.
Hope this helps.
2006-09-25 21:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything, really. Best subjects, though, are things you are both interested in. Music, sports, anything. However, if you are that interested in having something to talk about with him, find out what he is REALLY interested in, then do some reasearch on it. Ask him lots of questions on the subject. Pump him for information!! LOL.
2006-09-25 21:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jason W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to break the shy habit because all your doing is making room for your boyfriend to break up with you. Talk about nething... ask him how was hes day ? if he really likes you?
ask him anything that will start up a conversation. No guy is going to want to be with someone who has no interest in anything or doesnt talk some what .
2006-09-25 21:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by MiiMeyMeyDuh!! 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Talk about each others days, the weather, things that u would like to do together, sports, music, movies, ur life experiences when u were little, just be yourself
2006-09-25 21:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by jinfiniti9 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You figure out his favorite sport or type of movies. Then you ask him about what movies are coming out that he's looking forward to seeing. Research something he likes and talk to him about it so he sees that you care about what he cares about.
2006-09-25 21:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by Tom S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol ya sex always work but how bout u talk about the future or what if sinerios
2006-09-25 21:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by jasminenlady07 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Visit a library together... read books together
2006-09-25 21:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
fooball, school(if your in it), parents(if you live w/ them), basically anything that he likes or you like
2006-09-25 21:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by alextacy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marrage,love,us (well u and him),and other stuff that u love
2006-09-25 21:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by mariah nicole senter/ward 1 · 0⤊ 5⤋