What do i do. This friend is the best person i know. He's funny, intellegent, caring, and everything, but he's my best Friend...and he has a girlfriend...i think, and i don't want to screw up my friendship with him.
2006-09-25 14:03:09 · 13 answers · asked by starrynite4111 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has a gf, so you have to leave him alone. If they break up and he is then single, then you need to make a move and let him know how you feel. If you are meant to be, you will be given your chance.
2006-09-25 14:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by xanadu88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet at this point is to just be the best friend you can be, and allow him to live his life with this other girl. It will probably be the hardest thing you'll ever do, but if you love this guy as a friend, that's really your only option. I know how you feel, my best friend is a girl. She's the sweetest, nicest, most caring person I know, and I would love nothing more than to have her as my soul mate, as they say. But she is committed to another, and I have to respect that. However, nothing says that we can't still be the best of friends, and you know what? That's something pretty damn special too! Who knows, down the road anything is possible! Just be the best friend you can be for now, and see how things play out. Good luck, honey, and God Bless!
2006-09-25 21:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by kevin_p0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same problem (is it really a problem?) here. i've like him for 5 years, and thats the point ive hit too.
if its ment to b it will b, but im not gonna force it b/c id rather have him for a friend for a lifetime then a boyfriend for a few years.
keep the friendship for as long as it lasts, in the end he might realize hes loved u too
2006-09-25 21:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think he feel the same way about you.do you think the best to do is to tell him . i think you should keep him as your best freind dont lose him. it met not work out how you want it to go . it met work out thats a chance you have to take on your own.think it over an make the right choice.everywomen want a man like that i once did that with my best freind we didnt speak for years but then we be came best friend but i miss that friendship when we didnt talk for years. so its a hard choice you have to make.
2006-09-25 21:24:32 · answer #4 · answered by jamie g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there!
Have the same situation here... it is so sad because were best of friends, both transparent and open to each other, i know his girlfriend but were not close... our friends always tease us because its different when were together... and so hard to fight that feeling.... =(
At night i alway's pray that please guide me, give me more patience and strength to face the fact that we can't be together. But if we were meant for each other i'll be happy and glad to wait that time and show him how much I love him....
Hope that would help because I know that there is always a reason and purpose for everyone..... Godbless! =)
2006-09-26 04:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by simply_mica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO GET HIM! All's fair in love and war, and love and friendship are the key ingredients to a truly special relationship (that and trust).
2006-09-25 21:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats a tough one...how long has he been with his girlfriend? is it really serious? i dont know if the best thing is telling him because that might ruin your friendship...i think you should just see how things go with his girlfriend for now and if you really really cant keep it inside anymore, then tell him...
2006-09-25 21:07:46 · answer #7 · answered by lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl ur screwed!!! Oh my how could u like him! I never I mean NEVER date my friends. That u just dont do! I mean trust me it will feel awkward. Dont go there. Move on!
2006-09-25 21:05:49 · answer #8 · answered by ღimd14uღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then love him truley. Love him enough to let him be happy with her....and if anything happens with them, then see if you both think ist's ok to cross that line of being just friends. Best Wishes =)
2006-09-25 21:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by ME2010 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you just let in that u like him,then let him make the first move,if he wants to.not much more u can do.and in responce to the question of mine you responded to,was not a real question.
2006-09-26 02:39:51 · answer #10 · answered by Mark B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋