I love my boyfriend SO much...but hes cheated on me alot..13 times. And every time it happens I break up with him but I miss him so much I just take him back after I promised myself I wouldn't. We've been together for 4 years and I dont want to leave him but Im tired of him using me..what should I do?
2006-09-25 14:02:35 · 29 answers · asked by uhh huh♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
13 times? jeez. run away! Time is precious and its time you find yourself a new man. He's not the one for you, no matter how much you want to believe it. If he truely cared for you he would not have cheated on you the first time...the 2nd time you should've gotten the picture, but 13 times? comon! he's got you wrapped around his finger if you let him come back in your life.
2006-09-25 14:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb! Once would be enough for most people, but 13 times! Come on, you are just hurting yourself by letting someone take advantage of you. It sounds like it should be your self esteem you are missing and not him. Take a stand and get rid of him once and for all or all you will be doing is making yourself miserable by inviting his cheating ways into your life.
2006-09-25 14:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all I can say is that you messed up 12 times. Maybe after the first time but 13, that's on you not him. By the way would you like to buy some land from me. It's beach from property in the Artic.
2006-09-25 14:24:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u just get used to that u have him in ur life but u dont love him...maybe u just dont wanna be by urself... open ur eyes, dont let him hurt u anymore. Look for somebody who will deserve ur love and he will love u the same- without cheating. If a guy cheated once he will do it again, like u noticed so obviously there is a reason...think about it...
good luck
2006-09-25 14:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by Ashlee_Hbiba 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him now. Or you'll end up alone with three young children, no child support, and an STD. This guy has not shown you any reason to stay with him. You an forgive him once (maybe twice if you're nice). But 13 times is ridiculous.
2006-09-25 14:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by QuickQuestion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have never went back after the first time. It doesn't matter how much you love him, obviously he doesn't love you! He's cheated 13 times! You could catch some kind of std from him. You should care more about yourself.
2006-09-25 14:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by ♡chele♡ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, once a cheater, is always a cheater. He does not deserve to be with you if he is cheating on you. He will not stop cheating on you. You two should really not be together. If he is always looking for something else he really is not into you. So leave him and move on and find someone you deserves you.
2006-09-25 14:03:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he has cheated that many times & the way it sounds is that hes just going 2 keep doing that 2 u , as tough as it might b 2 do u need 2 leave him& dont take him backu dont deserve 2 b treated that badly
2006-09-25 14:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by dude 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just leave him, don't try and stay friends with him you have to cut off all contact at least until your completely sure you are over him. you will probably miss him a lot for a while but don't give in. surround yourself with friends and family. when i was in your situation it took me months before i could be alone without wanting to call him. it all works out for the best though. good luck
2006-09-25 14:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your into being disrespected and don't mind living like this for the rest of your life..........keep him.
Otherwise lose him. There are plenty other guys around who won't make a mockery of the loyalty you've shown him.
He probably has enough self respect to drop you if the situation was reversed.
2006-09-25 14:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by shadobeast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋