I have this girl in my class who I think is beautiful, sweet and funny. She doesn't seem to notice me but I really like her. I just need to know if there is any advice to approaching her because I would be extremely nervous.
2006-09-25 13:55:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont think she doesnt notice you....girls are a lot less subtle when they check out someone then guys are. just go up, introduce yourself, and make small talk. you know, about school, the class, school events, or even about the weather. its normal to be nervous, but just think that she could be just as nervous that you came up and talked to her. if she is as sweet as you think she is, then she will atleast be nice if she isnt interested. good luck!
2006-09-25 14:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by Ellen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be yourself. That's the first point. Also, if you want to not make the situation such a big deal and you are a nervous sort, have a friend come along with you to start a conversation. Once you've broken the ice and she knows who you are, you can engage her in conversation and eventually when you have the courage, ask her if she'd like to go for a coffee with you, something low key and with low pressure. Hope that helps. I'm a married guy in his early 30's so that's my advice to you from my experience.
Good luck and remember to just act yourself.
2006-09-25 21:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe approach her about something that has to do with that class. Let that coversation lead to something else. Find out if you have anything in common. If you do, talk about that. Be yourself. Don't be too nervous. I'm sure you'll do fine.
Good luck. :)
2006-09-25 21:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about something related to the class. Did she take notes you could borrow? Did she understood what the teacher meant when he said ... ? Does she want to study together? Etc.
2006-09-25 20:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by Ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I usually would go up to them and say something like "Hi who are you?....." then I would say what my name is and then I would just start to get to know them by just asking them thing like Mostly if they had a Man or if they are looking to find a guy to be their man at all then I would soon ask what they lie in Guys and what they like to do with and/or without guys that they like then I would ask them what types of music that they like to listen to.And then I would exchange phone #s and/or Pager #s with them.
2006-09-25 21:04:12 · answer #5 · answered by crsport24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make her jealous by talking to other girls in class. but also try not to make her so jealous that she will get mad at you. but laugh with the girls and laugh with them so much and stare at her 1 or 2 to make her notice you. maybe even ask her out on a date
2006-09-25 20:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by someone in earth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm we are people too but i don't know you but what you need to do is find out things about her who she hangs out with, talk to them see what she is like from there point of view then try talking to her your self she might like you but that is a slim chance see what she likes get you stuff to-get -her so just try I'm sorry this is really long
2006-09-25 21:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eye contact works...I can usually tell if a guy likes me by eye contact or talk to ppl she knows if you have any friends or friends kinda deal thing
2006-09-25 21:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by senorita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have any opportunites to do projects together ask her to be in ur group. or pretend u lost ur notes and ask if u can copy hers
2006-09-25 20:58:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you sit next to her pass her letters asking her questions and tell her to answer them. trust me it will work.
2006-09-25 22:19:11 · answer #10 · answered by EL GANGSTA. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋