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I personally think that luv sometimes doesn't exist. I mean that I do have a boyfriend and he is sooooo nice to me but I think it's just fun and games for him. He really doesn't show a lot of effection. Right now life sucks and I am dead serious when I say I want to killl myself. At this moment of life I think nobody luvs me or eachother. For right now can u tell me what love is and how do I konw that I'm being luved. Thanks A lot.

2006-09-25 13:34:31 · 11 answers · asked by greeneyedsnowboarder 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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unconditional love can only be given, never requested. you will know when that happens.

2006-09-25 13:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Its not always affection-some people just cannot show affection. Love is about caring, being considerate, thinking of someone, being respectful-its not all just hugs and kisses etc etc. If you feel this bad you realy do need to talk to someone. In Uk there is the Samaritans-I don't know where you are. People show love in different ways and Im sure that people do love you. How about your family? Try to think about doing things for others and making a mark upon the world-it will help you to take your mind off of your worries. You may then find that people tell you how much they do think of you-some people find it very hard to express. Do you like animals? They are very rewarding to look after. Perhaps you could help out at an animal shelter. It sounds like you have to much time to dwell on your feelings. Im not trying to be harsh-when I was young I felt the same as you at times but life has indeed shown me that I didnt occupy myself enough.Do get help though. You need to talk it through with someone.

2006-09-25 20:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by angeldust 4 · 0 0

Luv is ... I don't know. Now Love is something I know about.
Kill yourself? That is totally unacceptable. You have not lived long enough to know. He is not the only out there. Quit moving so fast. I was 51 years old before I found love and let me tell you it is extremely special. Maybe nobody does love you now. So what? Give it some time. You have time, I am sure. Quit rushing it, please.

Love is when nothing else matters but what or whom you love. How can you tell? If there is any doubt, then it is not love. Love is not all that important. Take care of yourself first. It will come, or like with me, it will come later. Don' t confuse love with lust or loneliness.

I hate to be the old man preacher, but you seem to be young. You have lots of time. Get out, meet people. They are not all bad.

2006-09-25 20:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You need to be able to give love to receive it, and if you're not sure if you're getting it, you're probably not. Take a step back, get your head together, focus on you for awhile. You can't love anyone else until you love yourself, and guys will be so much more attracted to the beauty of inner strength that you will project. Hang in there, people do love you, I love you, and you can love yourself. No man is ever worth killing yourself over. I've been there, I know. Keep strong, I know you can!

2006-09-25 20:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by orphanannie 3 · 0 0

Look...Love exists...not to go religous or anything...but love is a divine force. But it looks like before you love your boyfriend, or expect to look for love, you must first learn to love yourself. Once you love yourself, you will be able to love others, and they will love you. Love is not the same for everyone...but I can say that TRUE love...besides the heart pounding excitement...is a feeling of absolute peace...when life is complete with the one you love. Good luck in your life =)

2006-09-25 20:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by ME2010 3 · 0 0

Your boyfriend isn't apparently armed to help you thru this section of road. See a counselor or talk to a parent or another friend

2006-09-25 20:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by Foss 4 · 0 0

love is the best thing it could happen 2 some1 .. but it's hard to come by ... and sometimes it's over 2 soon .. but it's worth the search

2006-09-25 20:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Talk to your mom about your feelings. Love is when someone cares about us more than they care about themself. Love means that they are kind and compassionate towards us.

2006-09-25 20:39:44 · answer #8 · answered by godsgirl 4 · 0 0

to find love you first need to be able to love yourself and that means not hurting yorself you wouldn't hurt someone you love and right now i think you need to take steps to get to know and love your self more then looking for someone to love you

2006-09-25 20:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by sweetone 3 · 0 0

Hold on, don't do anything drastic. You're young yet, and you will find love someday..just be patient!

2006-09-25 20:36:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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