im a freshman, ok, i like this girls i have a shot with, but also there is another girl that likes me but she is in 8th grade (i like her) (she lives in my neighborhood) and idk if i should ask the 8th grader or the girl i like out? help be desscriptive cuz idk what to do
2006-09-25 13:32:04 · 13 answers · asked by junior_morrow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how old is the other girl? you'd probably have better luck asking her out if she's older than the either grader. plus, if she's a freshman like you, you'll see her more often.
then again, having to live so close to the eighth grader might be awkward. i think you should go with the person that makes you laugh the most, or makes you feel more special. the person that its also simpler to be around. you dont feel the pressure, you just want to have fun.
im still opting out for the other girl, and not the eighth grader, just coz dating a middle schooler is more complicated, just for the sake of having to keep up an image and make it in the highschool world. but then, the eighth grader wont be influenced by high school images, and even if youre a loser (which im not saying you are) there, she wont care and will still like you. think about who will like you unconditionally. the one that wont abandon you when something goes wrong in your life. has one of them helped you through major problems in life yet? if so, pick that one. if not, pick the one you can imagine staying over at your house watching crappy videos with you when your sick, or helping you with a major project that you put off to the end.
you want a girl that you can rely on, and she wants to be able to rely on you. so just imagine who would be the best for you.
P.S. PLEASE HELP ME WITH MY QUESTION ABOUT A CLINGY FRIEND. I AM SOOO DESPERATE!!
2006-09-25 13:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by need 2 get a grip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the 8th grader out adn then see if the girl that you like gets jealous and then you will know if she likes you or not. if she shows any signs of jealousy or interest then break it off with the 8th grader and go for the girl that you like!
2006-09-25 20:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by Ariel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't like the 8th grader, than go with the other girl that you like, cuz if you don't like the 8th grader than there's really no point of you being in a relationship with her.
2006-09-25 20:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so I think you should ask the girl you like (the 9th grader) adn if she says no ask out the 8th grader out. thats what I would do. Decide who you like better and ask that one out frist.
2006-09-25 20:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by dancingurl_22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one on this site can tell you what you should do because we don't know your feelings.
In order to find out, you'll have to follow your heart and take the risk. Ask the girl that your heart aims for out and see what goes on from there.
2006-09-25 20:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go out w/ a middle schooler if ur in hischool. its just weird becuz she wont b able to do half the thigns u can do and the difference between middle school and hi school is big. now that ur in hi school u shood stick to just hi school girls. def. go for the girl ur own age u like
2006-09-25 20:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old is the eigth grader?good idea to go out with the girls you like not just the ones that like you
2006-09-25 20:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by stonedhilbily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her, then ask her out, it doesn't really matter b/c she'll become a freshman in a year. Dont worry about what other people say.
2006-09-25 20:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by bks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how to be descriptive but just ask the one you really like out and let the other one know you just wanna be friends.
2006-09-25 20:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like her you should give her a go dont let age or peir pressure get in the way of true love
2006-09-25 20:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by beach_buggy2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋