Ok.. so i'm 20 now. I met her when I was 15 and immedietly developed a little crush on her. She was beautiful,smart, and funny. That crush turned into more as my years through high school progressed, and I always had a feeling she felt the same. I always spent time with her in the morning before classes, and frequenlty after school, at her request. We would sit there for maybe an hour and just talk about anything. Also, she would always find reasons to touch me for no reason, for example come up behind me and play with my hair, rub my shoulders, or touch my hand for a second when she spoke to me. She even cried the day I graduated. These were the things that made me feel like she felt feelings for me too, but she didn't act on them. That was 2 years ago, and I'm in a relationship But, Recently I ran in to her and she told me how much she really missed me, and that I should come visit her, or go out to lunch. Do you think she really has feelings or just my wishful thinking?
2006-09-25 13:26:31 · 10 answers · asked by Megan S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try being friends first... and give other things time to follow...she likes u.. no doubt.. and she neeeds u also.... but maybe its just friendship or a sisterly kinda affection...if u also genuinly like her as aperson thn i say u ve got a good friend in her..go out for that lunch and clear ur doubts..dont just sit and wait
2006-09-25 13:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go out with her and catch up on things even if she doesn't feel the same way I think it would be a great friendship to keep and if more happens then it will happen. Expect the best, but always be ready for the worst!
2006-09-25 13:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by woodtigerdp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm bi and before me and my current GF got together she did the same thing to me...I think she likes you but dont get in to deep. And if your already in a relationship make sure that your girlfriend is ok with it...If you need more help you can e-mail me @ yochannah18@yahoo.com or sexysky18@yahoo.com.
Good Luck!
2006-09-25 13:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by Skylar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that you're older I would be open with her and use a hypothetical situation about being in love with your teacher to see how she reacts. If she is appalled then back off and if she goes into she's felt the same way then make it happen.
2006-09-25 13:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by MommaMia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, go out to lunch with her and see what happens. You don't want to just tell her though that you like her the way you do, that might ruin the whole relationship. Just go and hang out with her sometime and see what happens. Good luck!
2006-09-25 13:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by italianbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't tell until you hear from her own mouth. Sometimes people do thing s that are strange because of one's background. Sometimes people are so as this case because they like to have friends . Sometimes it could be that people like you resemble so much their loved ones.... dead or alive. Have a talk and you will find out. from there, you then make up your mind .
2006-09-25 13:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by srjione 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only way to find out is to take her up on that visit. It sounds like she has feelings for you, but it also could have been you seeing what you wanted to see in otherwise harmless interaction. Either way. good luck. :)
2006-09-25 13:32:47 · answer #7 · answered by Deleted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not like i really have seen you two together, so I think you should really know the answer to your question deep inside your heart.
But are you sure your not taking it too far..i mean, she was your teacher and all?? I dont suggest you ask her because it might get strange and very ackward.
2006-09-25 13:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by ๑The Goddess๑ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you care about relationship you are in? if not, then just try your luck with the teacher...she might be having feelings for you, but you never know for sure...have lunch togehther and find out!
2006-09-25 13:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like she may feel the same way,go for it, maybe u 2 will end up to gether.
2006-09-25 13:32:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋