when you really like the guy but still cant show it like he can would you still say yes to the date when u really dont have the same amount of feelings that he has
2006-09-25 13:22:27 · 13 answers · asked by sammy brooks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i mean he is a nice guy but i feel like i barely know him at all we have only been friends or a year now nothing intimate and it doesn't plan to get that far i am moving far away soon soooooo yeah, not cool and i just dont want to get to close because i am moving too far to see him at all.....so what should i do? just take the date and make him suffer when i leave or turn him down with the date now and hurt him before i leave i am so confused....
2006-09-25 13:41:09 · update #1
when u are some what interested
2006-09-25 13:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, don't really know what you're asking here. If you're asking when is it okay to have sex with a date, I'd say when you see his ring on your finger and it's after the ceremony. Yeah, call me old fashioned, but it still works. If he won't wait that long, he's not the one for you. It shows his true colors and what he's really after. Now if you're just asking when is it okay to go on a date when you don't have the same feelings for him that he has for you, I'd say don't. Why build up his hopes when you really don't have any feelings for the fella. Don't be a pity date, feeling sorry for him. Just let him know that you're looking for something else in your dates. Letting him down now will be easier than several dates later. <*)))><
2006-09-25 20:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure...Just make sure that things don't go to far. And don't lead him on...If he has stronger feelings then you do tell him.But make sure that he understands that there is a possibility that things could get a little bit more intense.
2006-09-25 20:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by Skylar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What for waisting time to just be on date.
As a friend you can go but if no feelings - you can just hurt the person imagination. Don't do it.
2006-09-25 20:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. If he is truly in love with u and u just r considering liking him i wud tell him that i am not 'in love' with him. I wud only go out with some1 that i truly like and care bout. Good Luck!
2006-09-25 20:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go on the date and have fun
You might enjoy it
2006-09-25 20:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by Lilolme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have before. It never turns out good. Maybe thats cause i really didn't like him that much. If you like him then try it.
2006-09-25 20:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not gonna get a date with me loser,
I aint interested in drag queens or trans-sexuals sorry
I have a GF so F*** you loser
2006-09-25 20:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
on the date get to know him and you would probley like him more than you did.
2006-09-25 20:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by nae-nae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i like him it's a yes
2006-09-25 20:26:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋