Would a guy ever go out with a girl who plays soccer and takes football for PE? A girl who is part of the school band and in marching band? A girl who has constante mood swings and wears all black? A girl who has the IQ of 136 but acts like an idiot? A girl who is obessed with rock music and rock bands? A girl who loves to talk about current events and politics. A girl who loves a laugh and is always joking around? I'm not looking for a guy over the internet, I just wonder would a boy ever like me or am I bound to be a loser without a boyfriend forever?
2006-09-25 13:18:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually I'm 14 in 9th grade, but my best friends have both had their 1st kiss and I haven't even had a boyfriend, I just want some guy to love me and care about me.
2006-09-25 13:25:43 · update #1
You are FANTASTIC!!!!!!!!!!!
The only problem is that you are socially ahead of the poor boys at your age - they are just not ready for you yet.
Be patient - when you least expect it - he'll just be there and your souls will melt together.
I can tell you are an exceptional girl - good luck! You will make some guy the luckiest guy in the world!
2006-09-25 13:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl who has constante mood swings, wears all black, and has the IQ of 136 but acts like an idiot
2006-09-25 20:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To my new 14 yo friend. Read my next sentence until you understand. YOU ARE ONLY 14! You are 14 and talking about being with a "boyfriend forever". Baby, don't even think of it that way. And don't settle for just "some boy"; You seem like a sweet and intelligent girl so just have fun, you will know when that certain boy comes along. Your stomach will feel like it has butterfly's in it. Trust me, the butterfly's will come...
2006-09-25 20:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by been_there_done_it 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course who wouldnt u just described sum of my friends and they have really hot nice guys just wait for the right one for u and u will find the right one and u will be happy and who cares if u take football and soccer and rugby and everthing i do the same i play on the competitive sports it just makes the jocs look at u and the music will make the musicians fall for u and the smart part will make the smart dumb guys fall for u, and ur not a loser no one is ur jsut u and ur just different and how do u kno out there there isnt a guy who likes ur right now and how do u kno that they dont like the same things as u
u can never be sure just be ur self and some one will fall in love with u
2006-09-25 20:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by ~*!Tish!*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How's this--you're about 16/17? I apologize if you're 18. However, you're young. You're still in high school.
Here's a secret about high school boys--they have no class. If you want to look "immature" in the dictionary, a high school boy would be pictured. Don't bother worrying about when you'll get a boyfriend. Trust me--that will come in due time.
Don't be desperate for one--learn to love yourself first. You have so much going for you, so why would you compromise yourself for some guy?
In college you're going to find THOUSANDS of guys who actually are going to like you for who you are. It may not happen immediately, but you will find some great friends there--some guys and some gals.
Take it from someone who was single for 17 years: you'll be just fine.
2006-09-25 20:22:22 · answer #5 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you just need to find someone that likes the same stuff as you do, join some clubs at school, and maybe youll find omeone and if not in school, youll find one later, 136, thats pretty good hun im 118 and i get props for that-- jeeze, lol, good luck and remember you sound like you have a very good head on your shoulders...
2006-09-25 20:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my boyfriend are totaly opposite, we listen to different bands and dress diferently. But we get allong amaizingly!!!! so you dont have to find someone that likes the same stuff as you, just someone that likes you as you, and don't worry, you will!
your only a freshman, there is PLENTY of time, and i know ppl keep saying that but its true, there really is!
and dont blow off your first kiss, cuz ther first one is always the one you remember forever =]
2006-09-25 21:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by his4ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea b/c some one went out with me and I play every sport so don't worry just wait and see ok!!
2006-09-25 20:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I love you already, wish you were older and closer, but hang in there soon youll be with someone and everything will change.
2006-09-25 20:33:30 · answer #9 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u are a tomboy,hey guys like tomgirls too.just dont beat him in all the sports,at least give him a game once in a while,good luck....ps. maybe you can be come a butch or a dyke,
2006-09-25 20:27:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋