Love triangle solution?

Question

My girlfriend and I go to different schools. We love each other very much but we hardly get to see each other. She is the second girl I have "been with", and she suggested that I gain more experience so that I can be sure it's her that I want. She said when the time was right I can take my space. A week later a guy in his 40's (she's 18 by the way) talks to her, and she is very attracted to him. In a matter of 2 days she says she thinks it's time to take the space, "for me, because she loves me" when I know its for her. I decide it's for the best, after jealousy and anger. Then I send her flowers as a sign of pre-emptive forgiveness, and she is moved and promises to come back. She said that she felt bad because she aranged to have sex with him today, and that she cannot back out of either promise because she may regret something. Today comes around, and now she says shes extremely confused, but a little while ago she chose me, and he backed off. I want to know is this real love or what

Answer 1

I would be rethinking this relationship. Sounds to me like she is the one who wants to "test" the waters. It maybe real love on your side...but from what you have said I don't think she is all that sure yet.
Good luck

Answer 2

how can she "love" u when she is gona have..........sex with another guy????? Isn't sex supposed to be some1 u share with the person of ur dreams? some1 u truly care about? some1 u love? U don't just have it with 30 ppl!!!!!! U might have feelings for u , but she sure has false feelings for u. good luck anyway!

Answer 3

she is confused. everything is possible. keep on trying dude and all the best. may the force be with you.

Answer 4

She's not worth the struggle... I think she is being wreckless with your emotions and doesn't care about you.

Answer 5

nope

Answer 6

lol