am i really considered shallow if i dont date a girl who is 200 lb i dont find her attractive and i know i she a n ice girl i just dont see us as a couple i believe you need to be atleast a lil bit atteracted to the person do you agree
2006-09-25 12:55:09 · 29 answers · asked by lztexan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s im 150 lb so it would be wierd
2006-09-25 12:55:46 · update #1
you should feel attracted to the other person ...
2006-09-25 12:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't make you shallow that you don't want to date this girl. A lot of people say that looks aren't everything, but even if they're not, everyone looks at a persons appearance before deciding to go out with that person. Its better that you don't date this girl if you don't like her because if you do date her, then in the end someone will come out getting hurt.
2006-09-25 12:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by ur_strange2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone may say that how the person looks doesn't matter, but I think that looks is what brings you to the person in the first place, so don't feel shallow if you aren't attracted to a person because of their weight. Be attracted to them for whatever reason you want. No one should call you shallow, that's just your taste.
2006-09-25 12:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by JessBabby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that each to their own some girls who are a little solid are nice girls and some girls who are skinny are nasty as well as the other way round, but if you do not find her attractive then their is no point in hurting her.
In the bedroom is a big part of a relationship and if you do not find her attractive then you would be taking advantage of her and hurting her more it sound like you are better of just being good friends
2006-09-25 13:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by moccaebby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you aren't shallow. Dating is for people who feel attracted to eachother. No onesided attractions or anything like that. But keep in mind, dating was made as a way to get to know people better.
2006-09-25 12:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a little attraction is good. Do you guys go out to lunch or just hang out? IF you dont do that as just friends cause you dont want to be seen in public with her than that's shallow
2006-09-25 12:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on a 6 p.c.. i'd cost it a 10 on a chest i'd say a 8 a million/2 because on a chest they could have all of it toned up in spite of the indisputable fact that it ought to look nasty too . an on a first rate butt i'd say a 5 because a butt would not count number that a lot to me only an outstanding chest and muscle tissue and a six p.c.. and that i'd feel free.
2016-11-23 21:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by gyllenband 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i do think that's a bit shallow, but i also think that you shouldn't date someone you're not attracted to. but on the other hand, sometimes, to me, when a person is not that good looking, their personallity makes them way more attractive than a hot guy that's an asshole. so maybe if you just give her a chance, her wieght won't matter as much if you find her personallity attractive.
2006-09-25 13:00:00 · answer #8 · answered by phatfingaz10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not shallow, just honest. Most women are just not honest enough to say they don't like a person based on their physical attraction. Women will use terms like "no chemistry, no personality, etc..." to hide the fact they they are just a shallow as we (guys) are.
2006-09-25 13:01:29 · answer #9 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction is important in a relationship.
Some people can call that shallow, but when a beautiful girl turns an only average looking guy down because shes not attracted to them, nobody says anything.
just look at your priorities.. you are saying that she IS a nice girl.. and thats good.
it would be healthier for her self esteem for her to date someone who finds her physically attractive.
2006-09-25 13:02:49 · answer #10 · answered by ~Selene~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you do need to have some attraction there even if she is a nice girl but still be her friend you never know she might lose the weight and turn into a hottie on the outside as well as on the inside and as a friend you might still have a chance with her later i know you have heard of the book the ugly duckling the durk turns into a beautiful swan.
2006-09-25 13:00:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋