OK, guys. What do you find sexy and/or attractive about a woman. Is it her body or her mind or her heart and soul? When you fall in love with a woman... is it just physical or is it more than that?
2006-09-25 12:37:29 · 16 answers · asked by ~Forever~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
attraction...sexy is the body
love....their heart and soul
2006-09-25 12:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by Nick723 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First there is a distriction
Physical love is sex
attractiveness for true love is mind & heart & soul and physical love is a bonus.
Well thats how I look at it.
True Love is someone your going to hopefully spend the rest of your life with... So when I fall in love I need to be able to have a conversation with them. They have to have a good heart & soul or the love will not last.
What do I find sexy in a woman?
I Find a woman who is willing to be open and astertive about her wishes and desires very sexy.
I find a woman who is not afraids to express an opinion very sexy.
I find a woman who shows a bit of clevage very sexy.
I find a woman who does not wear alot of make-up very sexy
2006-09-25 19:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by bill45310252 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her attraction to me that gets my interest up. Falling in love is something I've had trouble with since I blew it with my high school sweetheart. I was married for 20 years but never really felt like it was head over heels true love. My ex and I are great freinds now. May even give it another try sometime. I really hurt the high school girls heart when I dropped her cold and then after my divorce, I've been afraid to get that deeply involved for fear of hurting more women. There have been others since my wife. I know that's alittle off your subject but that's just my story.
2006-09-25 19:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by Gregg J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen Im with the other guy. asian women have been driving me crazy lately. You just think its all just body and mind or heart and soul but to tell you the HONEST truth the reason I like the asian ones is cause of their ATTITUDE. For some reason or another i think alot of western girls have lost the feminity factor, and maybe its because of the dog eat dog society we're in. But the asian women still do things I think the way women used to along time ago, i don't know I don't think about it alot because I know what I like now and maybe I'm wrong anyway.
2006-09-25 19:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by sydkessal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, like it or not, "physical" is the gateway to more. I usually notice a woman first because of some striking feature... usually her eyes and smile. If she has a fantastic personality, then I just might want to get to know her. When I see that she is a dedicated, independent, hard-working woman who values God, family, and friends, then I pursue her - not because of any one thing, but because every area makes the grade. A good woman is a treasure!
2006-09-25 19:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by Paul T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's about what's on the inside that counts. I enjoy someone who's kind, freindly, and has a pure heart. I'm what you call "deep". I put her body, on the bottom of the list. if I had a chance to go out with the hottest chick in the world, if she was a *****, I'd say no. I hate girls who treat people badly, think too high or low of themselves, can't be with ne person at a time, selfish, lazy, prejudice, or a goth. if you're asking because you want to know who to be, take this peice of advice, don't try to be someone you're not, because sooner or later, it'll come back to bite you. just be who you are, who do you want him to know, you, or the women you made up? :)
2006-09-25 19:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish, i really do, that i could truthfully say that it is the soul and the way they act. But when it comes down to it, its your looks. But if you have a longer going relationship it is because of your personality. I hope this helps goodluck
2006-09-25 19:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given, there has to be a little physical attraction, but personality ultimately rules out. If she looks good, but has no personality then someone else can have her.
2006-09-25 19:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by Zach S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it's all those attibutes you just mentioned. Take all those and roll em into one woman and there she is.
I fell in love with my wife fairly quick and it was acombination of emotional and physical attraction. You always hear people say, "you just know..." well i knew it was her and it was only gonna be her.
2006-09-25 19:48:34 · answer #9 · answered by locowherto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Total package. Funny, attractive, intelligent women rock. One that knows what they want in life and are somewhat independent.
Be yourself.
2006-09-25 19:39:35 · answer #10 · answered by Derrrr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋