does it sound needy?

Question

I want to call this guy ive been seeing, but technically it's his turn ..he likes spending time with me but doesnt seem to make the effort and call, does it sound too desperate to call him and ask him if he likes me straight out?

Answer 1

Men will respond one of 2 ways if you approach him that way. Either he'll be glad you called and was straight forward with him or he'll feel pushed into a corner and run the other way.. It's hard to tell. You should probably wait for him to call or if you just can't wait ring him up and have a relaxed, fun conversation. Tell him that you were just thinking of him and decided to call & say hi. When a guy is ready, he'll either say so or show you by his actions. Just being honest with you ...if he missed you & was thinking of you he'd take the time to pick up the phone & call you.I hope this works out the way you want it to, but just be careful not to invest too much into this guy until he shows a little more interest and pays you more attention. Protect your heart first and foremost.

Answer 2

maybe he feels the same way about u, that he doesn't want 2 sound 2 needy r desperate and doesn't want 2 be 2 forward with u, and thinks maybe u would like it better this way. But u could call him and say that u would like 4 him 2 call.

Answer 3

Play the game, chicka! Do not call him and when he does call you, tell him you're busy or that you have plans and that you'd love to see him another time.
I know this sounds like the hardest thing in the world to do, but trust me...men LOVE the hunt. If you act hard to get and that you have a life outside of waiting around for him, he'll become increasingly more interested in you.

Answer 4

What is it with some girls and needing a guy to SAY stuff? It's the DOING that matters. The actions. What does he do (if anything) to show you how he feels? This is why so many women are still in crap relationships. They pay no attention to the actions and keep trying to excuse it by saying, "but he says he loves me"

Pitiful. Yes - it's needy.

Answer 5

Men do not think that you seem needy if you initiate a conversation with them, In fact i'm willing to bet he is not aware that ya'll are "taking turns". Most men don't think that way unfortunately. So call him, I'll bet he wont say "That's it, we're though for you calling out of turn"

Answer 6

I believe it takes two to tango. So make a last effort. If after he still doesn't seem to make any effort. Than play it cool. Don't call. wait for him to call. But don't sit on your hands waiting. If it's meant to be it will happen. Good luck.

Answer 7

i d go for a face to face only cause if he isnt intrested it gives you the apperance of being gutsy and ohter boys will hear this and i think they dig that, and this boy will apprecaite that if nothing else. i have nearly the same thing goin on with a guy i told i liked and now were trying to be buddies but he never phones im always phoning him he initated contact but hes not continuing... so whatever answer you choose i hoped it help and im going to check it out when it comes lol

Answer 8

Run away as fast as you can. If he is not willing to put the time in to develop a relationship with you now, imagine what he would be like if you were married???

Oh heck no, find another one, there are plenty of fish in the ocean. Walk on Girlfriend, walk on.

Answer 9

I would tell him how you feel. Then he will have to tell you if he feels the same way or not. If you don't feel like you can do that then just be friends with him. Don't bother him all the time either. Let him miss you as well. Maybe you need to play hard to get this time.
Hope this helps.

Answer 10

You should definitely call. I found out the hard way that guys do not think about my turn vs your turn calls. Just call and tell him because if not he'll think ur not interested!

Good Luck on your decision!