to many times ive opened my heart and life to people only to find myself alone again wondering why is it only me falling in love..when they are your everything ,when will i be someones everything..why does this life have to be this cruel??
2006-09-25 11:43:09 · 28 answers · asked by waveboy7675 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
these are the lessons in life that will you stronger.....
2006-09-25 11:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep being an open and honest, loving person and eventually you will meet the right person. i finally did after 28 yrs with the wrong man. Sure I know it sucks big time when your heart is on the line and you get hurt, but you cannot live your live in fear if you do you do not have much of a life to live. Just be tough and hang in there it will get better. Be yourself.
2006-09-25 11:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe we all have loved and lost. If you have learned something about yourself in each failed relationship. Than it was not a complete loss. There are some that believe it is better to never open your heart again to anyone. That is not my view. Yes, I would for go the heartache. But I wouldn't trade the feeling of being in love brings.
I have found that as women mature they are looking for more than a pretty face. They are looking for a good man. Be forewarned though. If your too nice women tend to use the nice guy as a doormat.
Take personality test like tickle.com, it's free and you learn a little about yourself and what type of person is suited for you. Good luck.
2006-09-25 11:49:39 · answer #3 · answered by Balou 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
next time try to find out if the person loves you as much as you love them....and try not jumping as quickly into it. you will be someone eleses everything in time.....just have to find the right person. i know it feels hopeless right now, and life CAN be soo cruel.....but just keep trying and keep being the open hearted person that you seem like. someone will return the same feeling soon enough. try to keep a positive outlook!:)
2006-09-25 11:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by Ellen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes a lot of time. When you meet someone new, be very cautious when letting them know your true feelings. Don't tell them any secrets or anything too personal unless you're really sure about it. There are a lot of dishonest people in this world, but there are a lot of good people too. They're just hidden and take more work to find them. Good luck!
2006-09-25 11:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by confused4ever 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is true that it is hard to trust especially when you've given your heart to someone and they don't in return. The funny thing is we keep torturing ourselves because when we are in love it's the greatest feeling ever. We keep taking the risk because we want that feeling of completeness. I feel your pain because, like you, it keeps happening to me, but I am still hopeful that one day the right person will come along and we will complete each other. Good luck to you.
2006-09-27 05:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by Angela N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am like you..opening my heart to ppl... with my current r,ship, we began as friends and went from there. It is after a year, going even better. I am very happy. I too never thought i'd find someone. I guess in those times, i chose to believe that this is where im meant to be, it is part of my journey and learning. I know its no fun to be alone, but just remember u still have your friends and family. Try joining a group with others that have similar interests as yourself, even online. I met my b/f online...but i also met a few idiots before him too... just be careful.
Best of luck. : )
2006-09-25 16:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by katieh1981 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love hurts as they say !!
its very hard for a while after a break up
but in time trust will come back... because its nice to love & to be loved.
give yourself a little time before you rush back into a new relationship,take up some hobby other than the computer,go to a movie etc join a bike club they are great,anything to take your mind off your x
2006-09-25 11:58:06 · answer #8 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are singing my song....telling my story. Love just happens and now I work a little harder to consider my partners feelings
1) I never go to bed with out a kiss
2) I never go to sleep with out saying I love you
3) I sleep in his arms...WOW!!
4) I never leave him with out the kiss and hug and the I love you
Those are rules to live by never forget to tell them you love them. Change how you view women and try dating some one completely opposite of what you normally would date and see how it goes. I like to believe there is some one for every one ..no ne was meant to be a lone.
~Good Luck~
2006-09-26 15:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two choices when your feeling down and out: get busy living or get busy dying. Seriously, is it fair to let a couple wrong partners from your past ruin the future you (both) have waiting with the right girl?
2006-09-25 11:53:57 · answer #10 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey life is like that.U control your life.Don't let hate and loneliness interfer with happiness and love.You will trust again it just takes time.Get to know that person before you fully open up because you never know what that person is going to do.But I'm holding in on you you will find your special someone.
2006-09-25 11:56:28 · answer #11 · answered by crazi_babi_gurl_4rm_pr66 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋