Another problem from me... Just recently found out that another girl, rather than the one I'm dating, has a crush on me... The problem is that the new girl is really attractive physically, but is too immature and naive too me. is there any easy way to let her know that without hurting her? she's a really good friend, I don't want to hurt her...
2006-09-25 11:26:33 · 19 answers · asked by kiatzu_shutendo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
On another note... She knows I have a girlfriend. It's just that she keeps making these little comments all the time. I've tried to let her know I'm not that attracted to her, but she doesn't get it apparently. I love my current girl and want to stay with her. That's why I asked for advice. Not to break up, quite the opposite, actually.
2006-09-25 15:58:10 · update #1
just continue to act as a friend and in one of your conversations gently tell her your happy with you present gf and tell her you wish the same kind of happiness for her
2006-09-25 11:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem you are in is going to grow shortly. See, your gf is going to find out about this other girl and then the s*** will hit the fan. You need to be upfront with this new girl. You need to tell her that you are flattered, but that you don't like her that way. There is no need to tell her she is immature or that she's hot or any of that. She just needs to know that you don't like her that way. This way you don't lose your gf.
2006-09-25 18:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by Christina D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah on the list of problems a person could have this really isn't up there.
If she is really attractive physically, then she probably will be alright. You have the perfect excuse- you already are dating someone else. Easy.
2006-09-25 18:29:10 · answer #3 · answered by s_e_e 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you enjoy her company as a friend and cannot move the relationship forward at this time.
2006-09-25 18:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by jaxpierced 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just explain to her that you have a girlfriend, and that you really care about your girlfriend. explain to her that she really means a lot to you, but as a friend. then just say that you arent available to be with her right now......she will probally understand. good luck!
2006-09-25 18:33:31 · answer #5 · answered by Ellen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a gf, then she should get the hint that you aren't interested. She ain't that naive!
2006-09-25 18:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by SexxyPrincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey macho man
tell jer ur already booked
2006-09-25 20:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by rav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you dont want to cheat on your girlfriend.
Good Luck!
2006-09-25 18:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by .: The Girl Next Door:. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that u like her as a friend. no more!
2006-09-25 18:29:21 · answer #9 · answered by ctgirl206 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you love ur girlfriend.. and u just wanna be friends with her
2006-09-25 18:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by an14341991 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋