I am very infatuated with a male friend of mines and it is impossible to get him off of my mind. Last semester, we became sort of friends with benefits, without actually going the full "sexual intercourse" route. Now, its a new semester and he is talking to this girl (I'm not sure if they are in a relationship yet) and feel my self becoming jealous of her, as each day passes. Since I stressed the fact that I didn't want to be in a relationship to him, I kinda feel that I missed my chance to be with him. So I guess what I am really asking is: is there still a chance for me and him as us?; because every time I see him, I just want to cry for being dumb enough to pass him up.
2006-09-25 11:15:45 · 19 answers · asked by michelle43200000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, Here is the question you have to answer.....Did your two not get it on because you wouldn't go all the way, or because he never considered you GF material but who passes up a BJ, or because you said there would never be a relationship. But understand you quit being "friends" when his dick went in your mouth. If he moved on because you were being a tease them tell him you want him and give it up. If its because he isn't that into you forget about him it was never going to workout anyway. If he doesn't choose you over the other girl then at least you know that you tried. Good luck, don't worry about "getting used" that implies that you didn't enjoy your part.
2006-09-25 11:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by brooklyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he isn't in some long-term relationship and is only dating this girl means you still have a chance to tell him how you feel. You'll have to bite the bullet and be prepared for him to tell you he's moved on but at least you'll know for sure that he doesn't have feelings for you anymore and you can mend your heart and eventually move on, BUT chances are if he had feelings for you then, he'll have feelings for you now and is just trying to be mature and move on since you expressed you weren't interested.
Try to talk to him as soon as you can. It's gonna feel awful to but in on this new relationship but if you've got it bad, he needs to know. You don't want to spend you life wondering. He probably hasn't fallen hard for this other girl yet so it's not too late. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-25 11:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by NutterButter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this has happened to me before too. and it sucks i know. but what you should do is talk to him. ask him if he really has TRUE feelings for this girl that he's with now. and be honest with your feelings toward him-tell him how you regret ever turning him down. and that you're now ready to be committed to a relationship [that is, if you want] and maybe then after he will realize that your who he should've waited for at the end, even if you didnt want to be in a relationship yet. but eitherway at the end of his relationship with that other girl, he's going to feel stupid for not being with you instead. so just tell him that right now there's an opportunity for you two to finally move on to the next chapter in your relationship as friends. hope i helped!!!
2006-09-25 11:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't need to read the whole question to answere this. Call him over and pirvate and , tell him its nothing that big but someday it will. Tell him to hear you out. DON'T TELL HIM THAT DAY.
Get drunk or atleast make it seem like you are . Tell him what you need to . Make sure he is not that drunk either. Tell him that you like him.
" Dear ( boys name ) rember last semester when me in you got together. I told you that I did not like you.Well the truth is I am lust with you . '
( make some kinda face tehn pause)
" I can't ever get you offa my mind. Won't you give me a shot."
( OR some less story book. Tell him if he does not thats ok to. Tell him you will always still like him and it wont go away.)
Talk to him.
2006-09-25 11:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by Wally Walker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 08:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by schugmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may have moved on but it sounds like you had some chemistry together. the only way to find out if there is still a chance is to go up and start a conversation with him. walk up say hi long time no see how have you been and then let it roll form there
good luck chick
2006-09-25 11:19:50 · answer #6 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We cant tell you if there is still a chance. You have to ask him that yourself. If he is who you want to be with then ask him out. And if he says you had your chance then you need to move on a find another guy. This other girl has done nothing to you, you have no right to get mad at her.
2006-09-25 11:19:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will fell even more stupid if you stand there an let him develop a relationship with her. Tell him how you feel. You don't want to have even more regret. GO GET YOUR MAN!!!
2006-09-25 11:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by Hotness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, find out if hes in a relatonship, then try askin him out. I had a huge crush on my friend but we didnt go out. Now he has a girl and I feel that I missed out.
2006-09-25 11:18:39 · answer #9 · answered by Jen A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is like with me i like my friend and he has a girlfriend but i dont want to stop liking him well thats whyat u should do... not care if u like this person u dont stop liking u stay where ur heart wants u 2 be i mean this person has to break up some time lol :) but stay positive
2006-09-25 11:18:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋