Me and my BF just broke up before 4months , and he said me that he played with me , but i really love him . Now i still love him . And before 4days i saw he is dating a girl again . And he just walked with his new GF infront of me . But still i love him . And after seeing them i was like crying . And was feeling too bad that i can't expalin .
How would you feel ?
I actually don't know what to do ? I Should i forget him ?
2006-09-25 10:51:39 · 38 answers · asked by tithi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on, don't be around them. Find a guy more deserving of your love.
2006-09-25 10:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok hold on one sec let me think,... dude, loose this jerk! u seem like ur one of thoese peole who like long lasting relationships, which is cool, but this dude is a a double s. drop him like a dirt bag and move on. there are 6bill people on the earth, estamateted 300mill ur age, find the bigger better fish(don't take that the wrong way cause im a fish!, though u do look cool:) maybe hes just trying to get u jellious so u come crawling back to him, but in any case don't do it. i have had my hart broken many times and the only way to get it to heal is with time, be strong. if he wants u he'll come get u. then after a while u can realy see howw u feel about him, OR if u realy do love him fight for ur love, but i would give it some time first. oh and be fishy!
2006-09-25 11:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by Big L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you. And honestly, you shouldn't waste your time on someone who doesn't value you the way you deserve.
You know in your heart you deserve better than him. Don't settle for a guy like that. There is someone out there who will treat you the way you should be treated. Worrying about the ex, is going to keep you from finding the right guy sooner.
Find more respect for yourself, put that other guy behind you, grow as a person, move on, and everything will be ok.
2006-09-25 10:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by noblehado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let go, easier said than done, I know, been there done that. He has obviously moved on, and you should too. But if it was meant to be, then it will be. Dont force it, just let go, and find someone that feels the same way about you as you do them. Youll be ok without him, trust me. These feelings will pass in time, just hang in there. And a little advice, keep busy, really really busy.
2006-09-25 10:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by Kuiper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that your ex left you. I think it was very rude of him to walk with his new gf in front of you. You do not need to be with someone who disrespect you like that. It is unfortunate that he broke your heart. You can't really forget someone who you love. However, you should give yourself time to move on. Be happy that you don't waste anymore time with someone who disregard your feelings like that. Avoid listening to love songs, spend time prioritizing your goals, hang with your girlfriends, but don't talk about your past relationship and move on to the future and who knows you may find someone else who's more of a gentleman. Wish you the best of luck!
2006-09-25 10:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I know, its difficult for your prefrontal cortex to move on with all the dopamine and ocytocine you must have , not evening mentioning the sudden peak of dopamine and then the extremely low levels because your break up.
SO what I suggest you to do is to find someone else , and forget that noob, I mean someone that noobish is not good enough for you.
2006-09-25 10:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how you feel inside. Did you really see yourself with him in ten years? It was only a four month fling! Don't let yourself be played like that. Be lucky it ended in four months and not four years! At least he did it sooner than later. I don't agree with him rubbing the new girl in your face.
My advice, forget about him, and move on. There are plenty of good guys out there!
2006-09-25 10:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by madamjenn40 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no choice you must give up any love to this guy. Is no way back and to fixed - you have to learn sometimes on the hard way.
Don't hate just forget he ever exist in your life.
Take time and care for yourself. Be more careful to choose new b/f.
2006-09-25 10:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you should be Get Over Him and have close friends near you to help. Sounds like a real looser, forget about him! Start dating again.
2006-09-25 10:56:18 · answer #9 · answered by katiy n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure its painful, but you just gotta accept the fact that he's a dick, and you deserve better. Try to move on, leave those happy memories in the past that makes you love him so much in the past and move foward. Good luck!
2006-09-25 10:55:02 · answer #10 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't his recent actions convince you that he was just playing with me. The next time he and his new GF walk in front of you, will you be able to resist the temptation to yell out to her that he is just playing with her and that in 4 months she will be replaced?
2006-09-25 10:54:54 · answer #11 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋