Some clarification. My Gf is 20 weeks pregnant. I love her very much and nothing will cange that. In fact I hope to get married. But, she is pregnant and dosen't "want to make love". I want sex, It is important to me. Is it okay to have sex with a former f!@# buddy? If she dosen't find out. I would use protection of course. I think she might appreciate a break from me wanting sex all the time.
2006-09-25 10:46:19 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
no!!!!!!! you should not even be asking
you sound really immature.....
can she do the same........
just handle yourself .........
and believe she will hit a sexual peak in her pregnancy and you will not be able to keep up.....
2006-09-25 10:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by I hear ya 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No its not a good idea how would you feel is she had the same attitude as you as some men go off sex when their partner is pregnant so think how you would feel if she went of and had sex with her ex f*@k buddy even if you use a condom its still cheating not only on her but your unborn child its not forever she may just be nervous it will harm the baby and scared, most people are especially if its their 1st child and don't know it wont harm the baby. Give her some breathing space she still needs to feel attractive to you but sex isnt the answer at the moment for her take her out for meals, cinema run her a nice candle lit bath and help her to relax just enjoy each other before the baby comes and when the time is right sex will resume and you will be even closer again. Just dont do it because you could loose every thing you love
2006-09-25 10:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by vicky s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is still NO!!!! You have to give up your selfishness!!! You and her are pregnant, not just her!! It is your baby together! So go through the stages together! Play some board games or go to a movie or walks on the beach or in the neighborhood. Walking is good for her and will help her body during birth and afterward to get her shape back. Do something for her and stop thinking of yourself only. Think how you can make the day better for her. If you hlep her around the house or take some time to be with her and put her first, she will probably be more apt to get in the mood to MAKE LOVE! Your putting out days are ofer if your are anywhere near being a real man and not the juerk you have shown us on here! Id you think cheating will not hurt your relationship you are very worng. Trust is a biggie in marriage and you have to earn and keep erning it or the relationship and your child wiil see it and not respect you or trust you. THINK! Are you sure you are anywhere being ready for this.?
2006-09-25 11:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a idiot you are still tring to make a wrong a right you done said that your gf is 20wks pregnant and we all told you that it is not right to cheat on her but apparently you did not listen or you can not read.what do you not understand about this it is wrong to F*** another women when you already have a gf and to try and turn it around and say she might appreciate you do that you are more of a A** Hole than i thoght. if you thinck she will appreciate you F***ing another woman so much why dont you ask her for her opinion about it and then come back and tell us what she said . You know why you do not ask her this question because she whould have you be the balls i personnaly like that idea.if you LOVE her as much as you say you do you whould not even be thincking this maybe you should look up the meaning of love and try to comprehend it in that self centerd brain of yours concedering you have heard of a dictionary.
2006-09-25 11:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by mcdanieljoanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get why everybody here is suggesting you not to sleep with someone else. I think it would be the best thing that could happen to her and her baby. She would be better off without someone like you who doesn't deserve to be a father, a boyfriend or a husband in the first place. This total immaturity is absurd. Go get it somewhere else but before you do gimme your girlfriends number so I can let her know she's free to kick your good-for-nothing nuts when you get back and thank god for getting rid of you afterward. I hope she kicks your balls so hard that you'll never be able to even touch'em again!
2006-09-25 11:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by Adorable Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 21:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by dungey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you really do not love her, because in any form you would not betray her trust, or do anything that would possibly jepordize the relationship between the two of you and that beautiful child inside her.
If this is a real concern and your body needs pleasing, I would talk to her. But never never do that. It's just not worth it. Use your hand.
And if thats not what you want to do, be more romantic, send flowers, write her poems, dine her, how could she refuse sex, if you bathed her, massaged her, and took things up another level.
Poor girl, I'd leave you if you were my boyfriend!
2006-09-25 11:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a self centered jerk. She doesn't feel like having sex because she is feeling run down from carrying YOUR child. Grow up or let the poor girl go. I cannot believe you would be such an insensitive piece of crap that you would even consider this let alone post it for the world to see. You are pathetic. I guess once you are married if she has a headache you can cheat or if she is on her period, or maybe if she gets a cold and doesn't feel like it. EEEEWWWW you are such a MAGGOT!
2006-09-25 11:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by therealprinsess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider her feelings. Men do have needs to, but you have to realize she pregnant. Cheating on her would be a bad idea, even if you use protection. Even if you have sex with a former F buddy, she might find out. If you think she won't she eventually will. Consider her needs and she might consider yours.
2006-09-25 10:57:57 · answer #9 · answered by *LaDy C* 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest not having sex with your former partner. There is a very high chance that your current girlfriend could find out.
Also, if you really do love her and want to marry her, I feel that you would be cheating on her already and you weren't totally serious about marrying her.
There are always porn sites or the pleasure of your own hand.
2006-09-25 10:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by galec777 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't want sex all the time and she did, is it ok for her to screw around with another guy to give you a break? Geez, how you are going to be when you have a screaming baby all night and your GF is too tired to have sex with you then because she is too busy getting up every two hours to feed the child? If all you care about is sex, then please let this girl go before you marry her. That's why you are supposed to have sex and have babies AFTER YOU GET MARRIED!!!
2006-09-25 11:14:44 · answer #11 · answered by Veryconfused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋