I have been friends with someone for a few years. We dated for a bit and he decided to stay with his long-term and live-in girlfriend. Yet he can't admit to me "it's over" and that he wants to stay with her. He still flirts with me and thinks there may be a chance for us "one day" What's up with that?? He says he wants us to be friends yet he still flirts with me (daily...we work together) and says he loves me and has strong feelings for me.
If he loved me, he wouldn't be with her. Why can't he just tell me "it's over" and let it go?? (we have not slept together so it's not about that).
2006-09-25 10:23:12 · 10 answers · asked by Xerxes32 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
variety.
2006-09-25 10:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is hoping for u guys to sleep together... some guys look for what they don't have at home. And flirting might be something he likes to do.. something that makes him feel good... And by u allowing that there is no reason for him to say its over... y because there is nothing there. He doesn't have to say that u know. But like i said u allow him to say those things,,, don't chu??? Tell him that its not right for him to say that and put an end to it... If not he will never stop..
2006-09-25 17:30:10 · answer #2 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks that it will ruin your friendship if he tells you it's over. It is possible to be in love with two people at the same time. Good Luck!
2006-09-25 17:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants the best of both worlds. He wants to get his new girlfriend and still keep you. Therefore, you are the one who needs to tell him that it's over.
2006-09-25 17:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by robertspraguejr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's keeping you on reserve. Flirtation is also reassurance that one is still attractive. Maybe he needs that. He may also just be looking to cheat, but wants you to initiate it.
2006-09-25 17:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its over
2006-09-25 17:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by droid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys want to have backups if they get dumped but if youre really mean and nasty they won't use you
2006-09-25 17:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by Vanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do, and I clearly explain why.
2006-09-25 17:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
their dumb and they want to hang on to as much booty as
they can.
2006-09-25 17:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by buggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do.
2006-09-25 17:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋