So I've been talking to this girl online who lives about 45 min away from me, and we're getting along just great. We have so much in common its rediculous! I've never met anyone before who was so simillar in every way. I would love to at least talk to her on the phone and eventually meet her, but I dont know how to approach it without sounding like some stalker or something. I think she's kinda cautious that way and understandably so. She seems just perfect though! What would you do? Thanks,
2006-09-25 10:19:45 · 9 answers · asked by JD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As her if she would call you-give her your number so that she can call you if she feels it's ok. Don't ask her for her number, incase it makes her nervous. Be like, I really want to talk to you, here is my number, please call me if you want-no pressure.
Make her feel like she has an option.
2006-09-25 10:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A generally good rule is to wait at least three months after you 'met' before you even begin to audibly speak of the possibility of meeting. Give yourselves plenty of time to get to know each other because--believe me, it takes longer when you aren't face to face. Maybe talk to her on the phone or something and then after a decent amount of time, you could consider maybe a group date type setting with some of her friends, so she feels a little more comfortable about it all.
Just remember that if she doesn't act interested, don't push her. And if it was meant to be, then she will come around soon enough.
2006-09-25 17:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by im_just_me_612 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet for lunch or coffee at a mutual place. Make sure it's daylight. If you offer her the safest way possible for you to meet, then it shouldn't be a problem. Tell her you'll be wearing something specific so she'll know it's you.
I would just be honest with her that your dying to find out if she could be something more than just an online buddy!
2006-09-25 17:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is indeed a difficult one.... keep chating....then share photos then keep chating until you see she is ready to meet, or you somehow have to go to the place she lives (city or neiborhood) or have to go to some show and you got an extra ticket lol....
2006-09-25 17:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by Snow surfer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she feels comfortable with talking on the phone give her your number and tell her to call if she is.
2006-09-25 17:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should like start out by asking her if she wants to talk on the phone first...and then maybe after a couple on months..she'll want to meet you. but dont rush things...it just make things worse.
2006-09-25 17:23:18 · answer #6 · answered by AdioSurfChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her your phone number so she can contact you, dont ask for hers. tell her that you would like to take her out maybe to the movies sometime. then leave it up to her. read tips on dating and relationships to better help you on this site
2006-09-25 17:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a pic first and make sure she isn't fat.
So no to fat chicks.
2006-09-25 17:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
be youself
2006-09-25 17:23:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋