I need advice?

Question

Ok I'm only 14, and I bet you're thinking that I shouldn't rush into trying to get a boyfriend,but I'm so stress because of it. I can't stop thinking about him. He's so nice but he seems to see me kind of weird. It's also hard for my friend who's going through the same thing, although she's had like 5 boyfriends. What I'm asking is what should we do to get them off our minds or to possibly get them to go out with us?

Answer 1

Make the first move. This guy that you like so much the only way to get him off your mind is to see if he feels the same and if there is a chance with you two getting together. So for the next week, be yourself, look great, do somthing different hair cut, dyed, somthing just look your best and make sure you go close to him, smile alot when hes around and look at him a few times in the eye not for long but a few seconds so he sees you doing so, than smile bite your bottom lip and slowly walk away. Than after so long write your number down and with it say I have noticed you for a while and i am quite shy to be making any big moves at this moment but just wondering if you were wanting to give me a call somtime and maybe have lunch one day. Please call me at..give a time like any time from seven till eight tonight. Than attach your best picture ever of you so he will know who its from. Than hand it to him or get a friend to do it. But do it whens he by himself. Than wait and see if he calls if not, you need to move on. Once you stop looking for that guy he than comes to you. Focus on school and friends, get out to those invited bday partys anything that is going to help you met new people. And go from there. Time will heal your pain and you will realize when you do finally met mr right, it was well worth the wait!

Answer 2

You only have about four more years to go before you get over this "am I normal, are you weird" teenage fixation. When you get to be an adult you realise that we're all a bit weird and it doesn't matter so give the weirdo a chance if he's nice.

Answer 3

You'll only get your feelings hurt if you start asking them out. At age 14 boys, are more interested in impressing their buddies than they are girls. Just be nice to them and don't flirt too hard they will come around eventually.

Answer 4

My friend has been in that situation so many times. Shes always telling me to try to get him interested-by being a tiny bit flirtatious, but not to much as to scare him away. But take it easy, you shouldnt be in a rush for a boyfriend.

Answer 5

You're 14 years old. Do some homework. Get a hobby. You're too young to be thinking about boys.

Answer 6

Don't rush to get a boyfriend.... You're only 14. Wait and enjoy your life.... flirt around with guys, but don't get serious....it only leads to some major drama and crap in your life that you don't need.

Answer 7

You are suffering from "raging hormones." And, yes, you are too young to be dealing with boys (study and pay attention to your school work). Consider an after school volunteer job or part-time job to get your mind off the boys.

Answer 8

FIRST OF ALL GIRLS OF 14 DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT. BOYS OF 14 DEFINITELY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT. STAY AWAY AND BE A KID WHILE YOU STILL CAN. HANG OUT WITH YOUR GIRLFRIENDS, GO BOWLING , RENT A MOVIE , HAVE PIZZA, HAVE A SLEEPOVER. DONT GROW UP TOO FAST. ITS NOT A PLEASANT THING TO DO , WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE OLDER TO WORRY ABOUT BOYS. TAKE A GOOD HARD LOOK AT YOUR LIFE AND SEE WHERE YOU WANT TO BE AND DO AT 14.

Answer 9

there are many things to do and be worried about at 14 besides boys and if dont want to think about them, then join activites togther like sports or an after school club. or how about setting up time each week you and her do something special togther if you dont want to be thinking about boys right now their is tons of stuff you can do.

Answer 10

flirt flirt flirt, But dont seem desprate. that scares them away. I know how u feel. Im 1yr older and have the same prob. Try not 2 seem so weird. if that dont owrk find some1 else.