My Gf is 20 weeks Pregnant. And dosen't seem to want to put out any more. I love her but I need sex. Is it ok to have sex with a former f*#& buddy? It won't change my feelings toward my gf.
2006-09-25 10:15:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
sure go ahead and sleep with whoever you want and then in about three years...you will be paying child support to how many women...are you nuts! No, it's not ok to cheat on your g/f who is 20 months pg. Let us girls shove something living inside of you for 9 months and see how much in the mood you are...you are the most selfish / inconsiderate jerk I have met today! Congrats on the title!
2006-09-25 10:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO it is not ok! What kind of fool question is that? You have made some kind of commitment since you are having a baby with her.Without the marriage you think you don't have to be committed but morally you should because she is having your baby.And the way you say it! not want to put out!!?? If you care for this girl it should be making love with her. You sound very immature to be a dad or partner. I feel for her and the baby and their future if you don't straighten up and mature a lot!Get on your knees and ask God for strength to mature and be a good dad and to figure out if you tow should be married or if this was a mistake. You can fix mistakes but you have to want to and it takes work. Every relationship takes lots of work and one is not to be horny when your spouse is uncomfortable and can't help it.You need to go run or play football or something but stop worrying over sex. You signed a contract with this girl when you had sex! Now that there is a baby, that you made together, you have signed an 18 yr.contract with the child at least!That should make you think about sex in a whole new way. Be responsible for what you already have instead of being so selfish!!!
2006-09-25 10:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not OK. It is selfish, mean and deceitful.
How would you like it if you were in a car wreck and she said--gee-he's been in traction for 5 months. I sure am horny. I think I'll call Joe Bob and see if he wants to F%^#$ me. What could it hurt?
I bet you'd be pi$$ed and she is IN HER situation because of YOU!! I bet you'd break up with her if you even heard a rumor she was running around on you.
Step up, buddy.
Think of someone else beside Mr. Winkie for a while. Treat that woman like a goddess, you won't have TIME to cheat. Rub her feet, not for you, for her. Clean the house. Clean the car. Get a part-time extra job for money later.
Bring her roses. One for every day she is pregnant.
Think of the miracle that is happening inside her--that you and she did together. This is not just about how horney you are, but what kind of man you are -what kind of daddy you are going to be.
If you devote your life to someone else-your child--you will be rewarded with happiness and joy, and a real life.
If you just think of right this minute and only your physical needs, you are going to be a worthless man, a cheap and mean daddy, and a loser in life.
It will change your feelings, because you will be ashamed of yourself (if you have a conscience.)
By the way, if she is good enough to have your child, why isn't she your wife?
2006-09-25 10:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know you are lame to even ask that question. your gf is carring your baby and all you thinck about is getting p**** from someone else maybe your gf does not feel up to being poked all the time her body is changeing and for some women during pregnancy it hurts to have sex.Instead of cheating on her maybe jack off A** Hole be concederant its not all about your ignorant A** you know what truth is you probably already F****ing around on her and you want someone to take your pathetic side and tell you that its okay well its not have you heard of ORAL SEX if it hurts her to have sex there are other things you can do so the both of you get off not just jackass"s like you
2006-09-25 10:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by mcdanieljoanie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought that maybe she's got sexual needs too? Just because she's pregnant, doesn't mean she doesn't want to be satisfied. Before looking elsewhere you should be talking to her about your needs. There are plenty of ways to get your kicks without actual intercourse (if you or her are worried about the baby). But if you're considering cheating then you are already half way there...so you'll probably do it anyway. I feel sorry for your girfriend.
2006-09-25 12:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding?? What planet are you from. Of course its not okay. Cheating is cheating. Don't do that to her. Her body and hormones are going through a lot of changes right now and if she has no sex drive, its not her fault. You need to talk to her about it and if she is still not in the mood, you're either going to have to be tough and go without, or you can always make use of your right hand.
2006-09-25 10:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by Momof2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a step back and realize what she may be going through and why she might not want to have sex. Your stupid if you think you can have sex with someone else and think it wont change anything between you and you girlfriend. MEN UGHHH.
2006-09-25 10:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It won't change your feelings for her...so what your saying is you have already cheated on her or have at least thought about it before she was pregnant.
I'm sure her feelings for you will change...she'll see you as a selfish a**hole prick who has no self control. Dude get a dirt mag and use your hands.
2006-09-25 10:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by mahree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, absolutely not! She's your girlfriend and that is your baby that she's carrying. She may not want to have sex right now but give her time, she's creating a child, what can you say you've done today?
2006-09-25 10:20:50 · answer #9 · answered by justwondering 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah right, you'll still be a fantastic father as well I suppose.
Then mugs like me will have to bring your spawn up on our taxes whilst you shag your way through life being a bloody parasite.
2006-09-25 10:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋