Sorry but i really need all the help I can get.
I'm 23 and got my first bf at the same age. I was really happy with him. I met him online. At first, I was hesitant coz I was never involved in any romantic relationships. I almost said no to him because friends told me that online relationships don't work at all. But still, I took the risk. I tried to be the best gf I could possibly be. Until one day, I found out that he was cheating on me. I was so sad and disappointed.
I just dont know how to forget him. I've tried all the possible things like making myself busy, read books, checking out with some available men hehe...but still nothing works.
Can you pls share some of your ideas? I would really appreciate if you do.
2006-09-25 10:14:55 · 19 answers · asked by Eve25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep yourself busy.
2006-09-25 10:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok the first thing you need to know is that what your feeling is normal. NOW to get over your break up will take time like anything else,all depending on the amount of energy you put out living in the past. I would try traveling if possible but to new exciting destinations or perhaps visit an old friend or relative to whom you have a great relationship with. Its fine to keep yourself busy but what is most important is how you do it. Try to do things that challenge your mind and spirit, for example try something like arts and crafts,karate, music, writting poems,and maybe some sports. The key is to do things you wouldn.t normally do, So pick something and when you do stick to it until you finish. Trust me you will be very impressed on what you acomplished by yourself and you will learn about who you really are and what makes you really happy. By then you will have learned to forgive the jerk and move on with your life try photograpy you will be amazed at all the beauty nature has to offer. and you will learn to appreciate the small things I hope this helps
2006-09-25 17:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by ali L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really no possible cure. Only time can heal a broken heart. You just have to know that when it is time you will be over that person and ready to move on. Take things slow I mean meet new people but dont jump into anythign cuz that usually doesnt work. It usually ends up becoming a rebound relationship which is not fair to either of you. But remember you will never forget a first love no matter what you do, you can get over them but your heart will always make a space for a first love.....
2006-09-25 17:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by ME! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never forget your first true love. Perhaps just embrace the relationship and learn from it. What do you think you could do to improve yourself for the next guy? Don't dwell on the would of and should of. He cheated on you for a reason. More than likely it had nothing to do with you. Move on and don't look back; only as a reference as to how not to do.
2006-09-25 17:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on the road to being a happy, single women. Spend some time with your friends, and just get your mind of him. There are great guys out there...who won't cheat on you. Who will love you for you and never want anything more. If you ever need reassurence of this, make a pick-me-up playlist of songs to inspire you. "Single" by Natasha Bedingfield is a good one. As is the classic "I Will Survive." :)
2006-09-25 17:20:42 · answer #5 · answered by kachelsachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds crazy but I believe you can let yourself think about the good times you had and keep the good feeling in your heart. For some reason, you are much more likely to stumble upon a new love and have your heart open for it when you are honest with yourself.
2006-09-25 17:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by dat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun I've been there, tried it all... the fact is you never truly forget your first love. With time though, you will be able to move on and have a good and better life. You deserve someone who will treat you right.
2006-09-25 17:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some1 better. also, u could try n make ur self mad at him. That will make u WANT to 4get about him fast! But yeah, find some1 better. But dont just check out the guys 2 make u 4get. that wont work, find one 2 have a relationship wit.
2006-09-25 17:19:21 · answer #8 · answered by singer_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish if i could tell you one specific thing will ease the pain and the hurt. The truth is that there is nothing except time. You find yourself thinking about them less and less and eventually you just don't think about them. I am honestly waiting for that moment myself. It has been almost a year since my breakup and i still think about him everyday
2006-09-25 17:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by upfromnutin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey just find a nother boyfreind not online. in real life just go to a
bar everyboby at bars aint bad people.i met my first love at a bar and he was 21and i was 17 i had a fake id off the comp.
2006-09-25 17:21:31 · answer #10 · answered by laura curtis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course i was a little younger with my "first love" i don't think you ever forget them you just move on. just don't go looking. you are still young.Mr. Right will come along when you least expect it
2006-09-25 17:18:20 · answer #11 · answered by mamma bird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋