i am in love with a girl who is dating someone else... a former friend of mine. we were together for 3 years and lived together as well. she messed up and ****** me over, and i didn't give her what she needed. she still talks and says she is unhappy with the relationship she is in and misses me. i miss her too, and i have been on several dates, but none of them have the same effect on me that she did. i told her that if she wants me back she will have to prove it, and that i am doing my best to show that i can give her what she needs. am i doing the right thing and should i give her a second chance at all. help me out here. i am struggling!
2006-09-25 10:02:41 · 6 answers · asked by BONE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOoo ...it's over. Believe me hon. You are having what I call Ex-regret...but?...it's just a natural phenomena after being with someone for a good while - then trying to date others - you miss the comfort of the past relationship - but doesn't mean it was good in the long run. Best thing you can do is NOT talk to her - move on..and keep on dating...when you find someone you click with again (and you will...guaranteed) ...then the ex your "struggling" with now emotionally?...will be a thing of the past. The best cure for missing the kiss of the ol' girlfriend...is kissing lots of new ones until you find the right one...how bad of a science project can that be?!!
Now go do your homework and have a report on my desk by next week.
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2006-09-25 10:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes. But make sure she knows what you want from her (trust, respect, honesty, etc). Relationships are work and committment from two people, but if you love her, then give her another chance. You will regret not giving it one more try. If it doesn't work, at least you know you gave it all you could.
Happiness sometimes means taking some risks, so go for it.
2006-09-25 17:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by Xerxes32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all it depends on what she did to you.if she cheated on you than she doesn't deserve another chance.if you really feel that she's the one give her a second chance,but of course she has to prove you that she deserves it.very important....don't try to convince her to get back together,she has to show that she really wants that too.
good luck!!
2006-09-25 17:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by bebelusha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE IS DATING SOMEONE ELSE!! There are tons of women out there who are looking for someone to love and someone to love them. For God's sake man, pick one. Stop wasting your time on someone you can't have who has caused you nothing but heartache.
2006-09-25 17:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you can trust her not to screw you over again. No trust no relationship.
2006-09-25 17:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try again. then you will know for sure
2006-09-25 17:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋