Sometimes when my bf meets my family I try to control him on what he says and stuff because he is alot different than them and I know that they wouldn't like some of the things he does...DO YOU THINK THAT HE WILL STOP LIKING ME BECAUSE OF THIS? WHAT CAN I DO TO STOP?
2006-09-25 10:00:15 · 11 answers · asked by cookiemvh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be pissed..nobody tells me how to act or what to say!
Just let him be himself, and if your parents don't like it, too bad for them.
2006-09-25 10:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't try to control him. He should know anyway to be polite and show manners around adults, especially your parents. He doesn't have to be the same as your parents. He just needs to be himself/polite at the same time.
2006-09-25 10:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by Dasja L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe tell him gently before hand that your family is uptight about some things but try not to say it in a way that can cause offence....we know how grumpy the male species can be!!!
good luck and dont force him to anything its HIM you love so why change him too much?
2006-09-25 10:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. maybe he can stop some things. if you let him know that u know what u r doing is worng and he really likes you he wont leave you fro that. Just so long as its not an every time thing. Just remember, if he dont understand, hes not worth it.
2006-09-25 10:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by singer_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No self-respecting man likes to be controlled like that. If you know you are doing it then stop.
2006-09-25 10:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
True love does not die. But stop controlling him and start contolling your family.
2006-09-25 10:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him your parents expect something more out of him
2006-09-25 10:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a sign you really aren't proud of who he is, and if that's the case you need to dump and let him find a better girlfriend.
2006-09-25 10:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just let him be himself if your parents like them like him if not to bad
2006-09-25 10:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just if your parents don't like him then just tell them you love him and you really want to be with him.
2006-09-25 10:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by krazy lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋