what can you do to get that feeling back?
2006-09-25 09:57:06 · 22 answers · asked by joyy_88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because both of yous are on your best behaviour trying to impression one another. Once yous both realize you have, the real sides of one another start to show, than thats when you start bumping heads. Its going to happen in all relationships, but thats when you know your in LOVE or not. If you two are in love than thats when you both can put up with each others flaws and still love being around one another. Its like family, and your friends. When you and your best friend met you two where great, never fighting, it was perfect, till you both get to be around each other so much its start getting on your nervous as well as hers. But if you two are really good friends you will have to have your fights but if you two make it after the fight it will only make you two stronger, same goes for any relationships. You need to have fights for a healthy one, it will only bring you two closer together. Its not how many kisses he gives you or how cute he looks or things like that will keep a realtionship from dying, its how you see the real person inside for what they are.
2006-09-25 10:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true that relationships tend to 'fade' but the truth is that in the begining the people in a relationship are trying really hard to be the person that the other person wants, i.e the diners, flowers, sweet names, and dates. The thing you need to be careful about is to make sure that you continue to do the little things--when you wake them, do it with a kiss and not a yell from the kitchen. Remember their favorite foods and make sure that on a long day that's what's for supper. It's easy for a relationship to fade, but with the little things, it's even easier to be in a realationship forever with the greatest, fullest feelings in the world.
2006-09-25 17:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by Koishii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say that the new bride is for 9 days...that means when anything is new it is all glittering and shining...but as it gets old it starts fading out...it is normal human nature...but the real thing...the love you share while you are dating should get stronger and stronger day by day...dating is not only about kisses and romance...if u r serious it has more to it...a long commitment...obviously romance should be there but happens all the time that it fades a lil bit...when u start dating it is all new excitment...all new feelings, emotions, then your mind gets used to it and it becames a routine...try new stuff in your love life it will be remain bright...but in few words...a bf will change when he becomes a fiancee and a fiancee will change when he becomes husband...with time the priority changes, responsibilites increases but the strong feeling of love should always be there.
2006-09-25 17:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It often does but it doesn't have to. A very important thing is to never stop dating your partner. You need to go out with them. Make sure you have fulfilling lives that are separate so that you will have interesting things about each other to share. Be more physically afectionate with your partner like in the beginning. Initate kisses. Do your best to keep yourself in shape, groomed and well put together. Spice things up in the bedroom and keep things new and recent.
2006-09-25 17:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by On the upside 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when we first start off everyone is on his or her best behavior... it is new and exciting..then we get comfortable when we think we have that person all wrapped. keeping an exciting relationship is hard work... you have to have imagination and try to explore ways to keep things interesting. i always heard what it took to get a person is what you should keep doing.. like dressing nicely... clean body...breath..etc... being courteous , understanding.and .attentive. do not take each other for granted and take some time out to be alone... with good conversation... and the kisses. never get so familar that we freely do things that are considered vulgar publicly. like the constant belch and worse. when people get that familar, romance starts heading out the window.. that even goes for married couples.
2006-09-25 17:05:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like it fade away because you or you parnter is not trying any more. its more like you guys need space to see what is out there.. trust me when you guys have space after a while they will relize if they still want you or do their own thing. i want out with girls for almost 5 years and she broke up with me i was hurt because we allwas manage to get back togather but i found out 3 weeks ago she was dating someone rich.. so now i just said its over!! and dont look back. mybe in your case if you 2 decide to take a break he will come back or not its all up two you 2
and i wish you good luck
2006-09-25 17:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by abcboyohboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best behavior wears off with time. And then there's all those annoying little habits that become unbearable. Generally some alone time and good communication can at least make life more comfortable. For getting the feeling back, try spicing up your romance and sex life. Play out fantasies, etc.
2006-09-25 17:02:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
try starting at the beginning again. do all those things you loved to do in the beginning. hold hands, blow kisses across the room at each other. you know all those things that made you feel like you were a teenager again. the butterflies in the tummy. think back and do it all over again. my husband and i do it everydasy and it still feels the same after 4 years. and most important, do go to bed angry at each other. if you fight, discuss it in a different room. never ever bring the argument to the bedroom. if it statrs there, move it to a diff. room.
2006-09-25 17:01:50 · answer #8 · answered by tsd574 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it won't fade unless you let it..you gotta keep doing those little things...take your bf on a "first date" and only talk about things neither of you know about eachother...my bf and I live 2 hours away from eachother...so everytime we see eachother we make it a memorable experience...so even tho we have been dating for almost five months now...it always feels like our first date somehow....try new things sexually, just try new things all the way around!
2006-09-25 17:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by violet1656 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well in the beginning every thing is new and fresh also you are trying to show each other your best qualities so as u get to know each other you get more comfortable with each other then everything gets old so u have to always try new things to spice up your relation ship
2006-09-25 17:02:08 · answer #10 · answered by fifsgurl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋