so with him to hospital or offer to or when he does pass away...I just need advice on what is the right way to handle this. I have never met any of his family and am real uncomfortable
2006-09-25 09:55:23 · 14 answers · asked by kathy ginn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he wants you to be there for him...then do it. You need to put your uneasy feelings aside as this is a very difficult time for your guy.
2006-09-25 09:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by LolaCabana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are comfortable then maybe you could go to the hospital and wait in the visiting area and console him and his family the best you can or you can stay at home and try to be there for him when he comes home from the hospital. You could also send a car offering your condolences
2006-09-25 17:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if your uncomfortable, you should go. It shows you care. Plus, you could give support 2 ur man. and hey, if u plan on being wit him 4 a while, ur going 2 have 2 meet them sometime. It would prob b better 2 do it soon too.
2006-09-25 16:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by singer_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he ask you to go with him then yes you should to support him, if he doesn't ask you to go and you haven't meet any members of his family then i wouldn't go on your own. it would be uncomfortable all the way around for you and him and his family for not knowing you. do what feels comfortable for you and him. but mainly just leave the decision up to him if he ask you then go in support of him. if not show him you will still be there when he needs you.
2006-09-25 17:00:00 · answer #4 · answered by andrea c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would defineitly go you dont have to be in the room unless hes wants you to be you could wait outside and try to develop a relationship with the family but dont try to hard right now
2006-09-25 16:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by raudidave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes totally this is what you should do if he asks you then you should go it will a show how much he Loves you and if he doesnt then go on your own it will show how much you care and it will be a great impression on his family it will show them that their son is with a person someone who is sweet and considerate.......Oh and sorry about the dad I Pray there will be a miracle .
2006-09-25 20:38:26 · answer #6 · answered by lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should just ask him what he thinks its best u should do.one thing u can surely do is be supportive and be at least by he's side if not hes family.if he thinks its best u should go ...than there is nothing to feel uncomfortable ..cuz he asked u to be there so it mean u're helping him.
2006-09-25 17:00:27 · answer #7 · answered by Altheea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants you to go the hospital, that's what you do. If he was wants you to go the funeral, you do that. In other words be there for your man in his time of need.
2006-09-25 16:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just wait in the waiting room, thats if your guy wants you there.
2006-09-25 17:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be there for your bf and make sure his ok and you have his support. and a shoulder to lean on you know.
2006-09-25 16:56:54 · answer #10 · answered by Pretty me :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋