Okay recently I posted a question asking if i should waste my time with a guy who I really like and who really likes me but has a girlfriend. Basically every response I got was like leave him alone I dont deserve that and so on. Now, today I told him he needs to figure out where he wants to be and then he can talk to me because it's hurting me indirectly because I want to be with him and I like him soo much. I told him I didnt mean to drop it on him like this but that's the only way I could make myself feel better in this situation - letting him go. He told me he understands how I feel and he's not going to try and change my mind or anything. But he's still calling me and being nice and all that's doing is making me miss him more and making me want to see him while remembering all the good times we shared. Should I cut him off completely or do you think we can still be friends and I just need to have a little more self control?
2006-09-25 09:52:48 · 13 answers · asked by Miss Thang 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Clean break is the only way to go. If you have feelings for eachother, then he should respect you enough to want you in a happy, stable relationship. If it isn't with him, then he should have the grace to back off and let you get on with life. He made his choice. Now enforce it. Anything else is bound to get messy.
2006-09-25 09:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a human yo-yo that he can push away, pull back, push away, pull back?
Why don't you stop playing this game with him: HE has figured out what he wants (he said he's not going to change)
It's YOU who needs to decide what YOU want. If you like being a human yo-yo, then by all means, keep taking his calls and be his "friend"-- untill he meet someone he really wants, and it'sgoodbye to you. But if you want a man who wants to be with you, treats you with love and respect, and isn't a waste of your time, then stop answering his call.
Why be friends with a person who doeson't want to be with you? Tell him to eff off.
2006-09-25 16:58:52 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop asking about this, you need to just find a different guy, and tell him as much. Talking to him isn't helping you or him, and especially not his girlfriend. You can't still be friends, you messed that up with wanting him as a boyfriend. Tough but true.
2006-09-25 16:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by live2ride 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u shud not ave sed owt in the 1st place really cos he may not ave even thought o u in that way, but as hes male now u put the idea in his hed that he cud get a bit o action, hes thinkin bout it. WARNING in my opinion he will use u 4 sex. Sorry chick, not wot u wanna hear but its my honest opinion.xx
2006-09-25 17:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by stiflersmom29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like this dude's keeping you as a second option. So you decide if you want to be on the bench or in the game.
2006-09-25 16:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by Tom S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you should cut him off if you feel you can't handle being friends. Before sayor do something that you will regret.
2006-09-25 16:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
beware. if he has a girlfriend and still calling you, if you let in back into your life he may do the same to you. sounds like a player. wants his cake and eat it too
2006-09-25 16:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by mamma bird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being friends is good if you want it that way.
2006-09-25 17:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut him off & tell his girl that he keeps calling you, he'll get the message then!
2006-09-25 16:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by scorpion187us 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keeping in contact with him is too muc for you to handle so you should cease all contact so you can get over him.
2006-09-25 16:55:09 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋