Instead of socialing with everyone - you choose the company that you keep (work particularly bitchy - not comfortable with work colleauges).
Have a disablity which takes me longer to comit myself on paper than others (some at work say this makes me depressed since it takes me slightly longer to finish tasks than others).
Fear of a work colleague that clearly hates me and had attacked another girl (avoiding his company makes me depressed)
During this period I had problems with my sleep (Occasionally) esp. if I worked late - which again according to some made me depressed.
I am so unmotivated with my life that I am completing a doctoral thesis, given papers and networked with the highest people in my field!
Am I depressed? I think not!
What really annoyed me was that this girl who spread this rumour was jealous of me I think, but the problem is because I choose my company - some at work beleive it.
2006-09-25 09:43:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Its confusing the way you have related this story of yours about your life, you go on about being slow and girl colleague etc then say you are not depressed?? Think you are doing the right thing about keeping away from this colleague who is violent and choosing your company carefully. Think people will believe what they want to believe whether you are guilty or not, just let it ride over your head as you have to work with them, they will soon give up and start on some else if thats what they do in the first place and ready to believe lies. Cant force the issue just ignore it.
2006-09-25 10:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by flowerpower 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I think you are who you are and you have a right to choose what company you keep at work. I think you are being mistreated at work and need to see an attorney as this is getting out of hand. You need to be able to do your job in peace and not be harressed at work and in fear of being made uncomfortable all the time with the lady at work. Sounds like you are a good employee and more dedicated to your job than others or it may take you longer to do your job because you have a disability and you are trying to do the job right. If this is the case you are being discriminated against. Either way this is a form of workforce harrassement. The girl that spreaded the rumers could get into serious trouble for slander. It would be good if you could find a job where you are appreciated more. Please report this to your supervisor and see an attorney! Violation Of Disabilties Act
2006-09-25 17:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I almost feel you should look into changing your job. You will always be uneasy, if you don't get on with colleagues. Also look into the possibility you are anemic. this often takes the form of tiredness and lack of motivation. have it checked out with your GP. Good Luck
2006-09-25 19:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by biggi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depression. Yes Highly over rated. Just a big money grab for those pin heads in physco field...
2006-09-25 16:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by Scott 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seriously, look for another job! I don't think any amount of money is worth working where you are! No, your not depressed, you just work around a whole lot of classless, rude people who sound like THEIR depressed!
2006-09-25 17:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by KIT-KAT 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
human being simply depressed because of the repressive feelings and experience. Once they are exposed then all the pain will go.
2006-09-26 00:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by digendra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bingo!! You've got it!! Good for you for having the insight! Hold your head up and march to your own drum....
2006-09-25 17:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by serious 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you sound quite in control of who you are choosing to be with.
2006-09-25 16:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by Princess415 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I am not depressed or bitter.
2006-09-25 16:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by slanteyedkat 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find a different workplace
2006-09-25 16:51:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋