2006-09-25 09:24:43 · 32 answers · asked by SunshineGal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you shouldn't. Having a baby is a huge responsibility, and having one for any reason other than you and a husband wanting one is not a very smart thing. Especially if you just want him to think you have moved on, and don't need him anymore. If he has already gotten another girl pregnant you don't need him really, and look at what his reputation is going to be now. You two broke up and he already has another girl pregnant....that doesn't say much for him, and it wouldn't say much for you either if you went and got pregnant. That might sound a little harsh, but it is the honest truth. You don't want your life and reputation going down the drain just because an ex got his new girlfriend pregnant already.
2006-09-25 09:36:58 · answer #1 · answered by <3*manda*massacre*<3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are being a real dumba$$. Why are you worried about what he is doing withhis new girlfriend. You guys aren't together. Why would want to bring a child into this world as payback. That's not gonna do anything but hurt the child and you because you don't seem like your ready t have kids anyway.
2006-09-25 09:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by lilcc2006sing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um no y in da world would you think that i mean have you thought about what might happen if you were to get pregnant just cuz your ex's new girlfriend got pregnant, I mean are you even ready to have a child both financially and emotionally prolly not so don't do it. i think you should move on and forget about your ex and his girlfriend and look for someone else.
2006-09-25 09:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U better not if u do u a crazy *** ***** u don't want kids and so what his gf is pregnant u shouldn't so your jealously anyway who knows their child could end up looking like a monkey
2006-09-25 09:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by Peyton J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wtf kind of thinking strategy is that. Sorry to sound so harsh but PLEASE do yourself a favor, and a baby's favor, by not jumping into something you will definitely regret. It's not going to solve anything, only complicate things further. He's an EX for a reason, and him and his new life are no longer part of your concern to be quite honest. He's apparently moving on and I suggest you do the same if you want to save both of you the heartache.
2006-09-25 09:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. Do you think he will come to you? How will you support the child? Child Support will not be enough bcause he will have two children and the first always gets more money than the second.
thank for the points
2006-09-25 09:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by En1gma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard a lot of bad ideas for child rearing but this might be the worst lately.
The tenor of this proves you are not emotionally prepared to be a parent.
2006-09-25 09:30:01 · answer #7 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello??! NO! Enjoy the freedom of not having a kid around. They are gonna have to get up every 2 hours at night and hardly ever get to go out and have fun b/c they have a baby to watch! Do you want that???
2006-09-25 09:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no u opening an can of worms u are not going to take back years later stop worrying about your ex he is an ex for an reason
2006-09-25 09:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by cowanelmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him before you get pregnant he's not the kind of man you want as you childs father.
2006-09-25 09:27:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋