i know this is kinda lenthy but bear with me here ok so we have known each other sience we were like 6or7 but he recently told me he used to like me when we were little (im13 and he is 14 or 15) i danced with this boy(not A) at my summer camp so everytime i c him he is like you little freak and i wuz talkin to him on the phone and my brother was like talk 2 ur boyfriend and i was like no then A was like what did ur brother say and i said that my brother said i should talk to my boyfriend then he said why did u say no and i said because ur not my bf and then he said not yet what shoul i make of this im really confuzed so any help would be gratly appreciated thanks!
2006-09-25 09:24:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know i might have made some spelling errors sorry if i did
2006-09-25 09:25:23 · update #1
i've never really been on a date date b4 ive only danced with one boyin my life and i don't know how my parents (especialy my dad) are going to feel about me wanting to spend more time with the opposite gender
2006-09-25 09:32:39 · update #2
and he is always kinda looking at my @ss (i'll admit its not small) or making comments like ur skirts tight or short or whatever and once he was poking me and i was giggling and saying stop so i kinda turned a little and if he really wanted to he could have squeezed my butt then he was like i wouldn't hve done that if i was u then he looked at my butt and was like in crazy ill do stuff like that(he was joking)
2006-09-25 10:42:45 · update #3
he was like im crazy id do sumthin like that
2006-09-25 10:43:48 · update #4
hey Tim D im not exactly boy crazy and A is the beginning letter of his name he is not an A******!
2006-09-25 10:47:01 · update #5
Okay this guy really is into you and would like to take your friendship more than friends if you would let him. Now the queston is what do you want....do you want him to just stay friends with you or would you give it a try. Going out on a date is alot easier than what you think is going to happen. If you want to give this a try go to him on the phone or in person ask him to go to the movies and see where that goes. sure he will say yes. If not the movies somewhere theres entertainment so you dont have to find words while theres that weird silence, but somthing that you both will enjoy and be able to talk. See how he is and if you could possibly see yourself with this guy. Once you find that answer go from there. If yes than you need to talk to your parents let them know that you like this guy, its nothing serious at all but you are going out on a date, if they dont like it tell them what if someother friends of yours and his will be there to..such as the moives, and see if they like that. After so long invite this guy over get them to have their oppinon on him and see if they wouldnt mind you going out with him. Just take it really slow and let time do its work. Just follow your heart it will keep you in the right direction. IF you dont like him like that, you need to set him straight tell him your friendship means to much to you to take the chance on going out and perhaps breaking up later, its just to risky. this way you are letting him down easy and also keeping your friendship. Good luck and follow your heart!
2006-09-25 10:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To begin with I think a 13 yr old is to young to have a boyfriend but.... you asked for my opinion so here goes.... I'm guessing he might have plans to ask you to be his gf but maybe he's just not ready yet, If you like him just be patient.
2006-09-25 17:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by Pildi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, ask yourself a couple of questions. #1 How do you feel about him?
#2 How does he feel about you? That's really about it. If you like each other, talk about it. Good luck, and don't stress out about it.
2006-09-25 17:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by Ava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like A is thinking the two of you might be a couple in the future. I wish you well.
2006-09-25 17:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to spell, learn to put together intelligent thoughts, At 13 you are too young to be so consumed with boys.
By the way - A******is a good name for almost all of the male species
2006-09-25 17:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by Tim D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By when he said "not yet" maybe he means he is planning to try and go out with u, keep ur eye open
2006-09-25 16:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by §†reet R¥dA 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk to your parents see what they think of you dating, then work up it slow if your parents are ok and start dating. Don't become a slut!
2006-09-25 17:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by katiy n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i say he likes you, and if u like him talk to him bout how you're feelin' and as far as ur parents go, try to have an "adult" conversation bout it, if u want to chat more, get more insight, email me at eshavonnetucker@yahoo.com
2006-09-25 17:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by Here2Help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u r sweet dont worry keep it a secret we all do.he liks u if u trust hi den go get him
2006-09-25 17:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he cute?
Does he show responsiblity?
Does he have an adequate size johnson?
Is he cute?
If you respond yes to questions, especially #3, then GO FOR IT.
2006-09-25 17:30:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋