umm ok i like this kid named tyler...he goes 2 a different school than me..my friend also likes him && all..she wont stop tlkin bout him 24,7..she is just rly pissin me off..o yeah she also asked him 2 marry her which even made me more mad here. i dnt kno if i should tell him i like him but im afriad cuz he has a gf....cuz my others gf called me...yeah idk wat i should do here people HELP ME!!!!!
2006-09-25 09:09:58 · 20 answers · asked by jennifer h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Act a bit more responsibly than her.
Decide that falling out over boys is silly at ur age.
Tell her I think it really sad that she's asked a boy 2 marry her.
4 heavens sake wait until he's earning B4 she marrys him!
Stick some headphones on & blast ur ears with something loud &distracting.
2006-09-25 09:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest thing to say would be to keep away from him. But i know how hard i can be if you have feelings for him, even tho he has a gf and ur best mate likes him. Looking at the consequences of going out with him, you would probably lose your best friend, and he would be upset if he lost his present gf. Howver if your friend went out with him, again he would feel bad about losing his gf, but you would feel so ultimately depressed. Personally, i think it would be better if u could steer clear of him, it helps the fact hes not in your school, but also if you keep avoiding him chances are your friend wont. Maybe you should compete, maybe you shouldnt. Weigh up the benefits and consequences of all the different routes you could take to him. I would normally tell someone to try as hard as you can to get someone you like, but this is a very tricky situation.
By the way, doesnt your friend seem a bit desperate in that shes asked him to marry her? girls dont even usually do that. If she is pissing u off tho, i always think you should confront people. if you talked to her (i know it sounds bad) but if she fell out with u you wouldnt have to worry about her. Its a really bad thing to do tho, im not recommending it. Think about it - shes your friend, and chances are you would actually break up with tyler after a while if you went out. But if you feel strongly enough then yeh, go for it, tell him how u feel about him and see where it goes from there. And remember, any problem youre ever in, you WILL get out of it somehow. any hardship you CAN cure. good luck
By the way, please dont listen to those sad freaks who tell you youre too young, and you should focus on school, and all that BULLSHIT cos experimenting with boys is a whole part of your adolescence! dont EVER let these people make you think youre doing something wrong by liking guys - its part of adolescence and you cannot fight it. hope it all wrks out x
2006-09-25 16:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by Brummie Geeza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you and your friend are very close, I would advise you say nothing until he gets annoyed with her and they break up. You could possibly hook up with him directly after that. Since he has a GF, it wouldnt be wise to tell him now.
If your friend really asked him to marry her, than I would say it wouldnt be long until they break up. So just wait a while and maybe pop in a few hints here and there.
2006-09-25 16:14:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, your not gonna want to hear this. but grow up, focus on school and your work. the chances that this is the guy for you are well lets just say you have a better chance of winning the lottery. dont worrry about boys! just have fun.
how old are you hun?
2006-09-25 16:14:20 · answer #4 · answered by xbeautifulxnightmarex666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you have to think is this guy rreally worth your friendship with this outher girl. Is he worth fighting for. Hve you ever gone out with him. Is he just some guy you have just met.if he is worht it then fight for him. But if he isn't then don't loose your friendship over him. Remember what you give up might not be worth what you get in the end.
2006-09-25 16:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is Your Friend Just Saying That To Piss You OFF.
2006-09-25 16:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by mks 7-15-02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, if he is involved already don't even waste any more of your time unless you already know he's not serious with his g/f and he has shown interest in you. Your friends are more important than a guy you aren't even with.
2006-09-25 16:13:28 · answer #7 · answered by susanashotsextoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your still in high school or middle, you are too young, get over this guy. Move on and like someone else
2006-09-25 16:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Beg him to be with you. Nothing makes us Men feel more Manly than having a Woman on all fours begging us to be with them.
2006-09-25 16:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a puppy and think about it again in a few years.
2006-09-25 16:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by doktordbel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋