I am 24 years old and I have not really had a person truely be with me and only me what I mean is the past guys I been with have cheated on me used me or something else even my daughter's dad cheated on me alot. Why does this happen to me I am a nice pretty sweet girl? what should I do?
2006-09-25 09:08:07 · 8 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go after a different type of guy. It sounds like you have fallen into a pattern of going after the same sort of person. You need to expand your horizons and choose someone that may be totally different than what you are used to. You might be pleasantly surprised. There are still nice guys out there.
2006-09-25 09:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by B-Money 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have heard numerous stories of people cheating on others. I am in high school so it is kind of normal for people to not totally be faithful to their boyfriend or girlfriend. The way i see it is, that you can't be too controlling. If you get jealous easily or try to hold them back from things, it's only going to make the person want to do exactly what you tell them not to. You aren't their parent, you're someone who should be encouraging them. Give your boyfriend the freedom he deserves, and make sure to always do the little things that make him happy. I have been with my boyfriend for a little over two years, and we have an amazing relationship. The most important thing we have between us is trust. It helps a lot in a relationship. When you trust someone, it makes it hard for them to want to ruin that. I have learned that the hard way a few times, but i've learned it only makes things harder if you are jealous. We also don't let things get boring. I still do the little things for him that i know make him happy. As cheesy as they may be, i know that it shows him that i'm always thinking about him. It makes him feel good knowing that i'm always there for him. We are still best friends before boyfriend and girlfriend too, which makes things so much more fun and exciting. Don't let things get boring, and make sure you form a lot of trust between both of you and everything should work out perfectly. I know it's hard sometimes especially since you have a history of cheating boys, but try it out. Just be yourself and the right guy will fall right into your hands. Hope this helped!!
2006-09-25 16:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so nice. Don't let them walk all over you, stand up for yourself and let them know from the start that you're not a push-over. Guys will take advantage of whoever they can to get what they want ( okay, some guys will). Slow down in your relationships until you think you know them better, ask your friends what they think about the next guy, since your judgment seems to impaired. Don't worry, you're not the only one out there who has had this happen to them. Just be strong.
2006-09-25 16:17:07 · answer #3 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the kind of guys you attract! You need to change your whole out look and go for someone you would never go or! I know you might not like it but I bet he treats you better. Maybe your aurah tells them you are a girl that can't see what is right in front of her. Try going for the other guys you would normally try for!
Always Amy
2006-09-25 16:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by heart2heart27958 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so nice and sweet...Develop a backbone to prevent this from happening in the future.
2006-09-25 16:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont put up with nothing ....say someone cheats on u dont give them a second chance or they do you wrong say bye for good...u dont have to turn into a ***** but just dont let no one take advantage of you or cheat on you .....you will find that certain someone and when u do you will know it...
2006-09-25 16:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by queenbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a christian man with good morals and principles and honesty and honorable. and doesnt just follow this world and it sick ways. and even if he is a christian doesnt mean he will have these qualities either so will have to do a bit of sifting. you going to have lots of insecurity now to, but he should understand that.
2006-09-25 16:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
date me...
2006-09-25 16:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by roto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋