OKAY, so i went out with this guy for 5 months && he told me he loved me and tons of sh!t && he took my virginity and dumped me.. Than, this boy "chris" came along, && hes always staired at me && we went to the homecomming together && than hung out the night after && he likes me && i like him, i just dont want what happened with me ex to happen this time.. what do i do?
2006-09-25 09:07:19 · 39 answers · asked by STFUbeezy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hold off on sex, if he truely cares for you, he will wait!
2006-09-25 09:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by helper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give it up too easliy- have a higher standard for yourself- you don't want to be hurt again right, that's the main priority here. so wait until you know someone better- and 5 months really isn't that long, honey- i'm sorry this happened to you. It happened to my best friend, in junior high too. You have to pick your head up, and go on, and don't let anyone tell you that you are a bad person- but learn from making bad descions, and just go on ! God Bless, because NOBODY is perfect.
2006-09-25 09:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...so Chris "Stairs" at you and, and "took you to homecoming" and and "hung out with you" and and you are worried he will dump you after you sleep with him?
What gives you any indication he WANTS to sleep with you? First, Sex does not equal love. Premarital teen sex= lust. It is very rare to find a high school couple that engage in monogamous regular sex that have been together for more than just a few months. We had girls at my school who slept with every guy they went out with....and they dated alot of different guys. Dudes talk...and pass around their slutty girls and compare notes...hey I had a jock brother, He told me what was up with him & his buddies... 20 years later at our high school reunion, those girls where ALL SINGLE
2006-09-25 09:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do what ever the hell you want. You waited five months and if thats true then you didnt do anything wrong. You were used, he's a douche bag(is that how you spell it?), oh well. But I wouldnt say sleep with this new kid because he might be doing the same because your ex told him your easy, whatever. Just be careful if you can't accept that sometimes people are'nt all jolly and nice.
2006-09-25 09:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop giving out free milk.... why should they pay for the milk when you are giving it for free. keep your legs closed. your pants on. save it for marriage..........men only want thing from a women and they will go to great lengths to have sex. even tell the chick he is in love with her.......
well maybe the sex was not good at all. .or you had bad breath, or you pussy stunk of tuna. i dont know. but be brave. not all men are going to be pigs.......... try serving some mayo with the tuna next time your with a man....
you will soon find a man who want more then a one nigjhter. sorry to hear what your first one did to you.
2006-09-25 09:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about what happened and take it slow. Most guy ae jerks and thats all they want is to have sex with a girl but if you go around assuming that every guy is like that then you will never fine the right guy for you.
2006-09-25 09:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by cascade_waterfall04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 08:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by spies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE YOUR TIME. What's the hurry to rush into anything with anybody unless you are that horny. Get to know the person real well and decide if this person is worthy of you. Then and only then can you decide to go further. If he likes you, then sex can wait. Otherwise, he is just looking to dip it and run too. Good luck to ya!! GaryT
2006-09-25 09:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with him make sure he isnt out for the sam thing the last asss hole was out for. Make him wait for yuou. when your ready then you can go as far as you want too. Dont let him pressure you into any thing you dont want to do. Ill bet the last guy said some thing like if you love me you do this for me. He probably pulled some line like that if any one says that too you then they are only out for one thign and one thing only. So if they every say that too you then leave their sorry asss right then and there dont waste your time with a looser. Its guys like that that make guys like me sound bad and i hate it.
2006-09-25 09:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by unkown 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over it...what doesnt kill you only makes you stronger. Spend some time with this guy but dont jump in bed with him. Forget about that other loser cause not all guys are like that. Give it time, you will come to your senses.
2006-09-25 09:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just cool it almsot ever guy has htat on their mind but you have to control is and tell him right off the bat that he has too go slowly. K hope this helps
2006-09-25 09:09:43 · answer #11 · answered by outlandishb13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋