i'm crazy about this guy who doesn't love me and i can't stop thinking about him and i'm falling behind in my schoolwork coz of him
i need help big time
i'm not syur if this helps but we're both13 and i'm older by 4 months
2006-09-25 09:02:52 · 43 answers · asked by vetwannabe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you know for sure that he doesn't love you??? if you are sure...don't worry....i know for sure that you will forget him and love another boy...time will cure your heart:)!
2006-09-25 09:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody gets crushes, that's normal. But the most important person in the world is you, and you have to take care of yourself. That means making sure you do your schoolwork and spend time thinking about your own needs and dreams for your future. You still have a lot of time to fall in love, and you will meet a lot more people , some who will actually love you. Imagine a future with this guy who doesn't love you. What would the reality be? That might help you to get him out of your dreams.
2006-09-25 09:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by UpanishadMorning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, we all do it. Ask urslf this..r u in love with him or the though of him? Maybe he knows how you feel and that is wht trns him off? Boy's like a chllng and if you are always there you dnt gve him a chnce to miss u. Occupy urslf compltly in other thngs. get a pt job at the mall. Hng out with friends that r not arnd him. Give him a chnce, he may strt lkng for you amngst the crwd. Keep ur Cool
2006-09-25 09:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take up a new hobby or join in a group activity that gets you out and about and meeting new people. Something physical or musical is great, even if you don't feel it like it. Whatever happens, don't just sit in your room stewing like a prune. Most of us have been where you are and have lived to tell the tale. Just treat it as a painful phase that will pass, like having a spot on your face.
2006-09-25 09:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anne C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the law of love, we only want what we can't have. Untill you really understand this you will continue to have these feelings about nearly every guy you like who doesn't return the approval. How do you know he doesn't love you back? have you told him how you feel? The easiest way to scare a guy off is by pronouncing your love for him before he has had time to figure out how he feels about you. If this is the case and you still want him, the best trick to get his attention is to start ignoring him. Once he realises you don't want him anymore he will probably start to want you. Like I said it's the rule of love, and it never fails
2006-09-25 09:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only solution is to find another guy, this will not make
you forget the other guy but, at least, you will begin to
circulate a little more and have a better chance to find
someone who will make you happy. To stay home and
dream about the one that does not care will never yield
happiness. Give yourself a chance. Good luck.
2006-09-25 09:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, im only a few years older than you and my crushes are quite fresh in my head....what you need to do it prioritise things in your head.
School work is way more important than boys at your age, because boys (and girls) just wana have fun! So make sure all of your work is outta your way, and then make a move on the guy....if he accepts, great! If he rejects, he is out of your head - move on!
Or you could just think about his bad points, i mean, does he spit, or pick his nose or something? I mean, sure he's cute, but even cute guys can be revolting at times! LOL!
Take care! X
2006-09-25 09:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Terious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh no!! I know how you feel when I was 13 I had this huge crush on this guy my age but he had a girlfriend! Its hard but truth is you wont feel this way about him forever! this will only last a little bit for al you know, when he gets older he will tunr fat and ugly or break out with major pimpols or something! Or maybe you like him but if you really got to know him his personality sucks! Keep your head up this will pass in the mean time try to get attention on something or possibly some one else!
2006-09-25 09:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by Social 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, knowing your age helps...you're not in love, your in like. When you love someone, you can sit by them when they have the flu as they crap diarhea all the while your sitting next to them, when you love someone you can forgive them for not paying the phone bill after you gave them the money to do it. You're in love when this person goes away on a biz trip and you trust that he/she won't fool around even though you've been arguing previous to their departure. Love encompasses more than just emotion. You're too young, I know you hate to hear that, but it's true...chill out, study hard and in the end (when your 22-23) the smart girl gets what she wants.
2006-09-25 09:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by Angry Insightful Black 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun this is very difficult for an adult to answer without sounding patronising but ill try. first- dont try to stop dreaming those emotions will soon fade but we all feel like that sometimes. next find another guy to dream about. if that doesnt work really concentrate on school and you might at least attract a nurd!!!
have fun but we all get our hearts broken sometimes
2006-09-25 09:08:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you can't have him and it's killing you... Find someone interested in you! That really helps. You're very young, so you have to prepare yourself for some more situations like that in the future... a normal thing. Life is cruel:-(
2006-09-25 11:17:17 · answer #11 · answered by prahmedio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋