Two guys, Martin and Corne. The are both great guys and i like them both, but I have to make a choice between them and I also dont want to lose their freindship. MARTIN is a very cute guy and a bit shorter than me, but its okay, hes loveable .CORNE on the other hand is a poet and treats of each girl he ever dated, not many girls, like gold. I want both but cant have them, plz give me your view and advice. I need it. Thanx allot
2006-09-25 08:57:52 · 10 answers · asked by ogies_01 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ohh, toughie. You're gonna have to be careful if you don't want to get in the middle of a friendship battle. Try not to think of it as you can just pick whoever you want. Step away for about a day ortwo and get your thoughts together. Who do you miss? Who do you want to see? Which one?
That's him. Be careful. :]
2006-09-25 09:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by kachelsachel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It may sound a bit cliche, but always follow your heart.
Take the time to listen to your heart. Whatever your heart is telling you is who you should choose. Believe me, I know from experience. I am now happily married for 7 years with the guy I chose and I had to choose between him or one of his best friends. I know I made the right choice because the other guy's life hasn't been so pleasant.
2006-09-25 09:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by ticktock 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PERSONAL EXPERIENCE: Me and my ex-best friend are nemeses now because of a girl that chose one over the other (me over him). He couldn't handle that, so he started making up stuff about me and now she's with him and she still believes his BS. And every single day, I feel like beating the [expletive deleted] out of him. My advice: don't be like the girl from my experience. You're better off finding an entirely new guy than ruining their friendship because you like them both. At least if you find someone new, they can both forget about you as a romantic interest together. Don't destroy that for them.
2006-09-25 09:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to choose between the both,it means both like you aswell...it doesn`t matter whom you would chosse,one of them would be hurt.If you don`t want to ruin their friendship for something you are not sure about,then back off...look after someone else.This is my point of you.BUT if I really would have to choose between those two,then it would be Corne.
But I say it would be better to choose a third person,cause you will just lose one of them,and they will loose their friendship.
Wish you Good Luck,and hopefully you will find someone to be like those two guys,loveable,and to treat you like gold.
2006-09-25 09:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by donatella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pass leap off a bridge you guy whore...jk. nicely in worry-free words you could be certain interior the authentic. You more beneficial positive be certain quickly earlier both the ladies study one yet another. which will be yet another situation waiting to ensue. did you recognize the way your gonna sense after making your decision. each and every time something is going incorrect along with your lady your continually gonna imagine about the different and picture "what if". So yeah yet in worry-free words you recognize which lady is the right one
2016-10-16 02:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would go for the one who would treat me the best. The one i think i could fall in love with. Some one who will be there for me and never cheat on me with any one. Some one who i would have heart pain thinking about and can't wait to get home ffrom work just to see their smilling face when i get home. go for the one who makes you happiest. Try to make sure you don't loose their friendship. Try not to make them enemies as well. man life can be complicated can't it
2006-09-25 09:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bottom line... you date one... you lose the other... garuanteed. You date neither... you have a chance to keep both or lose both. Best bet... wait for one to find a girl then make a play for the other.
2006-09-25 09:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by tbayxxxv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i need more info suchas examples of how they act around you but if they are friends you should not go out with either of them...you could ruin your friendship with the other guy you dont choose and the guy you choose could ruin his friendship with the other guy? if they are friends remain there friends you are causing trouble...or could (dont cause any drama and madness keep it kool)
2006-09-25 09:08:46 · answer #8 · answered by daddys_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to choose? Why not be single?? Whoever you are attracted to more is who I would pick.
2006-09-25 09:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by Momin2005 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a bigger bed and a lot of lube
2006-09-25 10:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋