was he using me because he was upset his relationship was going no where?or did he really feel something? my two brothers hang out with the same crowd and one of there friends said he like he liked me but it was off and on and then all the sudden he would call me and say stuff like i really like you and i 'm starting to realize how much you meen to me and WHEN we go out i never want to break up and really sweet stuff!!! ( i mean it wasnt just really out of know where because we always talked and he knew i liked him) at that time he and his girlfriend were going out but she was a very flurty girl if you know what i mean and she treated him like $#it... so was he using me and trying to get my attention or was he really realizing something...?
2006-09-25 08:56:23 · 19 answers · asked by daddys_girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he may have realized you are a very nice person and that you are someone he would possibly want to date or get to know if he were not in a relationship. but he sounds like he really likes his girlfriend and is hurt by her actions so talking to someone else would relieves his hurt. he is harmlessly using you so don't get mad at him and don't get caught up, just go about your business until he breaks it off with his girlfriend.
2006-09-25 09:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by Skypride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he was saying those things to you while he had a girlfriend was wrong no matter how she treated him. Maybe he meant it. or maybe he was making sure he had a plan B cuz plan A was not going too well. I'm sure he thought something of you or he wouldn't have called you at all. Either way you should tell him not to say those things until he gets rid of her.
2006-09-25 16:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by daiseynavigator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just with what you've written I can't say for certain. However, any man who would still have a girlfriend or wife, and not have broken it off and dated another... well what does that say about that kind of a person. Not good. Move on.
2006-09-25 15:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me you should get out while the getting is good you seem to have a head on your shoulders so i am sure you could find something better else where. The thing is if you have to ask the question then you probably know the answer
2006-09-25 16:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by jeff o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking from a mans point of view, it could go either way.It all depends on his personality. If i was a true player then i would be using you to make my girlfriend jealous. But if he is sincere he could really be interested in you, but is really affected by his girlfriend or should i say ex. Its up to you to put him in a category
2006-09-25 16:07:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No male is worth all that drama and trouble. If he's playing head games with you, move on to bigger and better things. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
2006-09-25 16:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by Holly P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have not been involved with someone who already had a girlfriend. He should not have cheated on her, he should have broken up with her if he wanted you too. Treating him like **** or not..when he breaks up with her and comes back to you, thats when you will know.
2006-09-25 15:59:51 · answer #7 · answered by chiara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should not of been with you while he still had a g/f. He may not be using you but he is not fair to you. if he continues to ask you out and still has a g/f ... then he is playing and using you .
2006-09-25 16:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was using u 2 make his girl friend jelousy
2006-09-25 16:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by maygen l paige 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was using you.
2006-09-25 15:58:31 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋