The other day I overheard this women telling her other female friend "im not going to settle for someone" like I did in my previous relationship?? Isnt true eventually we all SETTLE for someone?? To say that thier isnt someone in this WHOLE WIDE WORLD who would not..look better? treat you better? connect with you better? whatever it is your searching for?? Someone out there is BETTER then the next,,,,for those who disagree please explain.
2006-09-25 08:55:12 · 19 answers · asked by im cool 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Life is kinda like a car lot. Trade it in, trade it up.
2006-09-25 08:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey i hear ya showdy look i use to get it all the time he aint ever gonna settle for anybody bla blah i've been called a man hore to a player to a you name **** well see and now when i do settle they all are mad like why her she isnt the best looking? what well cry me a river got tired of being so super ficail you know well so what she is not the hottest i could do better on looks but yayaa yuo get me man? well see the thing is you will settle and when you well they wont be happy no winning man no winnin
2006-09-25 16:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by tip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is why divorce is so common. People have this vision of finding someone better. It's very rare to find someone you will always agree with all the time. Marriage, like any relationship is work and if you love the person you will find ways to make it work. Divorce is a cop-out. Nobody should get married unless they are completely commited.
2006-09-25 15:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by yummymummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that we all know what it is that we are looking for and that that is what we should get. When you "settle" you will never be happy. Most men who are good to their other half, that dont cheat, it is cause they did not settle, the ones who are messing around are still looking. The problem with women is that we settle cause we can change him, when in fact you should be with someone cause of how they are not what you can make them.
2006-09-25 15:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by spanishfly_100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In another person's eyes it may look like i "settled" for my husband- he's overweight, 13 years older, not the greatest dresser, etc.
But I didn't. He is the love of my life and that is not settling.
Perhaps she felt locked in the relationship or "settled" for money or something instead of waiting for true love.
2006-09-25 15:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by ashley f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree because even if it did get better how would u know they where a good person if you find someone that treats you right you should stick w/ 'em instead of saying there's always someone better.
2006-09-25 15:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by outlandishb13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you misread the womans statement. She meant she didnt want to settle with someone that was like the person from her previous relationship.
2006-09-25 15:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, im sure what she meant was that in the near future she's not setteling for anyone. i always say that too even though me n my man have been together for almost 3 years i know hes not right for me, so im not setteling or other guys im not very trusting so that may be the case for other people, but iside i know i will settle around 28y.o im 20 now
2006-09-25 15:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by ula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may mean she will not lower her standards....example: she likes her man to be tall so she is not going to settle for a man that is 5 feet 5 inchs tall. This is my perception of settling.
2006-09-25 15:57:52 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you so excuse me for putting my two cents in. But some women dont have confidence in themselfs, so they end up marrying or hooking up with anyone. I have a freind that is sooo pretty and has a great a personality. But she wont show it to the right guy.... so she dates losers that wont expect much either.
2006-09-25 15:59:07 · answer #10 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you fall in love, really really fall in love... NO one is better for you... and if the time comes where you are no longer good for each other then you move on, you're a different person at different phases of your life... AT THIS moment, that person could be the best! believe in true love!
2006-09-25 16:07:04 · answer #11 · answered by kissed_by_a_nymph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋