i was at a wedding with my fiance.when the bride thew the bouquet i took a step back when i saw it coming at me.so it fell on the ground and i just stood there and didn't pick it up.another girl took it.after that i was sorry that i dind't catch it.does it mean that i am not ready to marry my fiance?that i may be afraid?does it still means that i will be the next one to marry or the girl who took it?
2006-09-25 08:41:47 · 15 answers · asked by bebelusha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
The bridal bouquet is really just a fun thing to do - don't let this incident be some sort of "hidden message" about your feelings. I would not want to catch the bouquet either! And it has nothing to do with not wanting to marry my fiance, I just don't want to be put on display at someone else's wedding.
2006-09-25 09:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by PT&L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I unquestionably have regarded up, that is what i found. The bouquet is tossed comes from the custom the bouquet is the well-known-day decision to the previous custom of the "tearing of the marriage gown". In days long surpassed by ability of, unmarried ladies might tear slightly bit the brides gown for sturdy success. One in easy terms can think of how forward for the brides gown at a brilliant amassing! consequently the tossing of the bouquet is the well-known decision that enables the bride's gown to stay intact. it won't be forgotten that the girl who catches the bouquet is the subsequent woman to be married. Rice and wheat signify fertility, prosperity, and bounty. on the instant travelers throw rose petals, potpourri, wheat, millet seed and birdseed. Showerig the newlyweds in bubbles or liberating birds, butterflies and ringing of bells replace rice on the instant.
2016-10-17 23:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st the bouquet thing is not scientific there is no rule that says you'll be next it's just something people do and say at weddings like wearing something new, blue, old and borrowed.
2nd If you have to ask if you're ready you're probably not.
3rd Only you know if you're ready
4th Why did you take a step back answer that. Why didn't you jump like the other girl did?
Don't stress when you're ready you'll be ready and you'll know.
2006-09-25 08:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by Trish H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you didn't catch a bouquet doesn't mean you have to get married next or anything. Don't worry about silly traditions. Step back and think about how you really feel!
2006-09-25 09:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by glitter3317 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you having to ask that question means your not ready to get married and if your already engaged you don't need to catch a silly bouquet.
2006-09-25 09:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by Shonreaq G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently.
2006-09-25 08:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you didn't catch the bouqet-that's all!
You shouldn't need a sign to tell you whether or not you're ready to marry your fiance.
2006-09-25 10:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are correct. ur letting the bouquet fall and refusal to pick it up is an indication of how you really feel deep deep inside. you,ve probably been in denial for a while. let your fiance go so he can find his true love.
2006-09-25 09:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by Johnny Zero 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Girl step away from those beliefs and work on your relationship. If you start thinking negatively, don't work on building things and think positive you will have all those questions answered yes.
2006-09-25 08:45:24 · answer #9 · answered by Sydney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It simply means you decided not to give in to what some women find to be a degrading tradition. And that's all it is - tradition and "myth." You're fine, no worries.
2006-09-25 11:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by Church Music Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋