Since I left a long term relationship 9 years ago I cant help but use women for what I want.
I dont mean too but it always seems to happen, I meet them either through work or on nights out, I then date them until I am sexually satisfied, normally 2 or 3 weeks worth of sex then I dump them like a bad dose of wind......
Am I out of order for doing this?
Why cant I stick with 1 women for a long time?
Honest I have tried keeping them longer, I think I lasted 5 weeks once......
2006-09-25 08:14:06 · 24 answers · asked by ra88ie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No although I think 9 years to get a long term relationship out of your system is long enough. The problem will be when you fall in love with someone just like yourself and you get hurt. You sound commitment shy at the minute, maybe you should be more choosy who you date.
2006-09-25 08:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you keep trying the wrong women - maybe you are choosing shallow women who only want you for sex too? Or are you saying that you are choosing nice girls and treating them badly?
If it is the latter maybe you do need some help - or there again maybe you just haven't met the right woman for you yet.
On the other hand if you don't want a relationship you should try to be happy as you are and make sure you meet women of a similar mind.
Good luck
2006-09-25 08:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to STOP dating women and go get a prostitute. you are messing with peoples lives. you are aware of what you are doing and if you continue then you are doing it on purpose. i met a guy like you and i cant stand his guts because its down right wrong. when i say men are terible you are an example of what im talking about. STOP HURTING PEOPLE. go get some help and if you dont be careful those things you are doing will catch up with yo as. you are selfish and need a good country spanken and that is a beat down by all those women you have screwed over dont you know you are making a mark in these people life that is for no good. STOP IT and i mean STOP IT. its men like you that give women every right to hate you dogs. SO STOP IT
2006-09-25 08:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are wrong for doing that to them. Look, I truly believe that there is someone for everybody out there. You are not looking for a relationship. You are looking for a boody buddy. So if you are not ready for a serious relationship, you need to stop leaving all of these broken hearts behind and just get you a boody buddy. Just remember what goes around comes around. All you have dished out you ARE gonna get it back. It Karma and When Karma comes around It's not a joke. Stop playing and grow up. Get it together and get it right before the right woman comes along and you miss her.
2006-09-25 08:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by ga_gyrl91 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you save the women you come into contact w/ alot of heartache and cool off things for awhile. I mean, you don't always need somebody in your life (and bed). Maybe you should take some time and deal w/ your issues instead of using women (probably some of them were keepers but you were to busy worried about "getting some" that you overlooked the best parts of them. And no, I don't mean the most obvious things. I mean their hearts.
2006-09-25 08:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You r making these innocent woman pay for whatever turmoil transpired in your last long relationship. Its unfair fo sho. If you care enough you can try therapy, OR do what I do and just get involved in booty call relationships...that eliminates the emotions and the dropping like bad wind because your all in it for the same reason.
2006-09-25 08:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's out of order to sleep with all these women unless you're not honest with them. Why should you be judged for having sex? You're certainly not doing it alone. I'm presuming you're all adults so neither of you are going in with your eyes closed, metaphorically speaking. Be honest and be safe - if you're both these things then I don't see what the harm is.
2006-09-25 08:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have a problem with women, that you cannot stick to one. I do personally think Miss Right will come along and you will realise that you cannot live without them. Good luck and well done for admitting your wrong doings.
2006-09-25 08:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by jayne 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your morals......ummm yea you are really out of line. one day you are going to fall in love and get a wife and she is going to be sad and disgusted that you have slept around so much.....trust me!!! sounds cliche, but it will happen. But if that doesn't matter to you......I think the woman are probably using u to anyway.....Trust me on that too! either you are just for sex to them too or you are a rebound anyway. If they really like you and give it up that soon......they aren't a good catch anyway! WEAR PROTECTION!
2006-09-25 08:23:07 · answer #9 · answered by AUDREY H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you do it because you are afraid of getting hurt. its easier to use than to get attached and run the risk of a broken heart.but be forewarned what you are doing is just like whats been done to you ,and when you find someone you really are interested in, you may be back on the end of a broken heart! i hope you do whats right--good luck always
2006-09-25 08:19:13 · answer #10 · answered by nonners1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋