I found a guy that's always unpredictable and loves to have fun. We know each other from some time now, but it always was the "hello" conversation. And a week a go, we kinda hooked up and he was pretty cool. ANd we met this wekend again and he told me he liked me, my style, attitude, . **** like this and .. he was always makin an aproach so i would go with him home. But i managed to keep it all to just flirtin most.
I see he is always for fun and he likes talkin to other girls.. and he always askes "boyfriend?" when i talk to one of my friends. The thing is . i satyed with him this weekend too . and im feelin this as a casul thing.. and .. i wanna know .. is he interested in more ?? and if not .. how can i make him??
Btw. he asked for my number last time .. but i don;t see him callin .. taht was 3 days ago ..
2006-09-25 08:11:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry to say it but he just wants a good time and a quick fix. don't get mixed up he seems like he is really convincing, but in the end he just wanted you in his bed and nothing more. you cant make a guy want more he has to want it first
2006-09-25 08:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means he doesn't want what you have to be serious. If he likes talking to other girls, you might be missing something. You may be a nice thing he has going on right now. If there is a possibility of you two getting serious, don't push the issue. If you're that special to him, he'll come around. Being that you stayed the whole weekend, he may be very interested in hooking up with you. But he's unpredictable, so be ready for anything.
2006-09-25 08:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You typing began well, but after a paragraph, you went down hill!
You can't 'make him' - feel what he does not feel.
Trying to turn ('make') a casual 'thing' into something more 'serious' would be dishonest of you - manipulative.
if you ''wanna know ....is he interested in more,'' then you'll just have to ask the question of him ...and be prepared for what you do not want to hear.
This might demonstrate something about 'not giving it away' by spending a weekend with someone - so readily (and easily), and whether it is worth the cost to you.
So many know the cost of things, but not the value of them.
Best of luck.
Sash.
2006-09-25 08:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is already getting everything he wants. It could be that he is doing to you what several people are telling you to do with him. He's playing "hard to get" to make you more interested in him. But his interests in you might be the "quick fix." If he's got you, plus an unknown amount of other girls fawning after him, there is no reason for him to get caught up in a relationship and might not be interested in more. Tell him that you like him and that you want to spend more time with him. Worst he can say is no.
2006-09-25 08:35:26 · answer #4 · answered by wut ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend you are busy when he talks next time and see how interested he is then. don,t be so available play hard to get. men like a chase.
2006-09-25 08:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask him straight out if it's something more, can't read his mind. Otherwise you'll be sitting around wondering what he's thinking. Then take it from there.
2006-09-25 08:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by fun girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh Oh you falling for the fcuk buddy
2006-09-25 08:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by lildemon78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always the same problem with a simple answer..........tell him how you feel!!.......it ain't hard.....just ask him " are we in a relationship?or is this just a thing(like friendship)?...."is this "thing" going to go any furthur?".....you know........just be honest (don't be scared).....and be yourself.....don't dress up all sluty and try to be flirty(sexy).......good luck!:)
2006-09-25 08:19:55 · answer #8 · answered by sexy_ndn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start acting like a grown up.
2006-09-25 08:13:56 · answer #9 · answered by revolou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still give him more time, let him know that you want something solid
2006-09-25 08:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by Dutchie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋