ok so my amazing bf wants me to meet his friends. problem is i am 7 years younger than him and his friends....they are all married. one couple wants us to eat dinner at his house. they are thinking about kids while i am thinking about sorority rush and grades. what are we going to talk about? is this their chance to interview and judge me?
2006-09-25 08:05:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can talk about family interests, what ever comes to mind
2006-09-25 10:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be nervous, just cause they're older doesn't mean they're in a totally different world. You can talk about anything you want. If they talk about kids, mention how you feel about having kids, or tell them how you're only worried about school at the moment and can't think of having a family yet.
Be yourself, they will only judge you if you come out as trying to judge them.
2006-09-25 15:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by elguzano1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My GF is 21.
If we did not have anything in common, (music, sports, outdoor activities) then we would have different friends and most likely not be together.
If you enjoy kids talk about what you like about them, if not listen and learn. These people have knowledge, learn. If they ask why you are so quiet, a respectful reply is "I'm soaking this up!"
So relax, listen, join in where you have things in common. Learn about your BF's likes and dislikes. Learn about him. Make sure there isnothing about him you can't live with.
2006-09-25 17:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find things to talk about: school, current events, the latests movies that are out, the weather, your major, your future plans, etc.
Yes this is their chance to check you out and make sure their friend isn't making a mistake.
2006-09-25 15:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself, thier is plenty of things in the world to talk about than kids. Think of some interesting topics of conversation.
2006-09-25 15:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about what's going on in both the news and sports
2006-09-25 15:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying so much. If he's amazing he wouldn't let something bad happen.
If you go into this with expectations of being judged, you'll be judged.
If you go into this with expectations of being loved, you'll be loved.
Your choice.
FP
2006-09-25 15:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't worry about it...I'm Bi and my GF is les.I met her friends and they are all older then me to.I thought the same thing before I met her friemds...They shouldn't judge you...Just relax. Everything will be fine.
2006-09-25 15:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by Skylar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might be there chance to judge you but just be yourself and make conversation. Stay away from politics!
2006-09-25 15:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by Qua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go. They're just people. They might have had the same experiences. You'll talk about whatever comes up.
2006-09-25 15:07:31 · answer #10 · answered by Jenyfer C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋