We broke up twice and now he says were threw
2006-09-25 07:35:42 · 9 answers · asked by pinksophie044 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well my friend i have a question how old are you, many times in our teenage years we breakup to make up over and over. I dont think you can actually "get someone back" if they want to be with you, they will. if your too clinging then it will drive him away even more. show him he is not the center of your universe, might shake him up a bit do you think? hey you never know he migh come running back. good luck!
2006-09-25 07:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by poochie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through that too. I assume i am much older than you however. I am in my thirties.
My x and I split twice in three years and are now back together. It happens. I got my x back by knowing where he hangs out and went there and slowly after being in the same room began to talk. Since that day we have not been without eachother besides when we went to work which is okay. I would suggest NOT giving up unless he is for sure it is over and even at that give him time to kool off and see what may happen if anything. I sympathize. We were seperated one and a half years before returning to eachother again. Just remember anything is possible. :)
Good luck!
2006-09-25 07:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by MOM OF ONE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were the 2x you broke up mutual? First write a pros and cons list on your relationship and one for you and your boyfriend. Go to www.About.com. There's an article on "Gettiing Him Back, A Smart Girls Guide to Winning Back Your Guy". Good Luck!
2006-09-25 07:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by Aine14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you try to get him back maybe you should look at the reasons why you broke up twice already.
2006-09-25 07:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by Kenya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is an ex's for a reason. move on there are a lot of fish in the sea. Quit nibbling at the bait.
2006-09-25 07:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by khaines_98 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him time..give him some space to think about you which he will still do..if he says its over i would still just give him some time to realize how much he needs you in his life..sometimes it takes a while but if it is suppose to be it will be...just remember that
2006-09-25 07:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says your threw, well accept it. If he loves you, he will be back but please, don't beg for his comeback, just let it happen
2006-09-25 07:38:59 · answer #7 · answered by ladydi9red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another guy and make him jealous
2006-09-25 07:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by lilykiss8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plain and simple...FORGET IT! Move on with your life
2006-09-25 07:39:32 · answer #9 · answered by bprice215 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋