I kind of freaked out on her last night when she showed me. I can't believe she had it done, (Her best friend did it for her). It just looks so creepy. I guess I'm hurt because you'd of thought she would have talked to me first. Am I wrong to be a little upset?
2006-09-25 07:00:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's naturally to be upset. I think out of kindess and respect she should have asked your OPINION on it, but you should allow her to do what she wants as far as her body goes. But yeah, that's a little messed up she didn't even clue you in on it. Just tell her that if she's going to keep them in, keep them clean. Ex gf had hers done and later on when she decided she no longer wanted them, she periodically gets a funky discharge out of the pierced holes........so yeah, take care of them lol.
2006-09-25 07:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 20:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was reading all the other answers prior to mine. I found an interesting theme - 'it's her body, she can do what she wants'. Although that may be true, the fact that she didn't tell you is a reflection on the maturity of the relationship. People who are committed to each other, consult each other about personal items like piercing nipples. They seek out their partners thoughts. The fact that she didn't tells me you may be more committed to this relationship than she. It's done, Enjoy them.
2006-09-25 07:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are her nipples you know.
Is her friend a professional piercer?
Were the instruments that her friend used sterilized in an autoclave? If not then ya I'd be freaked out! I'd be worried about AIDS & Hepatitus B & C!!
BUT if it was done 100% by the books so to speak then you are just gonna have to deal with it or break up with her.
But you're not that shallow are you?
It's not like you woke up one morning to discover that they had pierced your balls?!
2006-09-25 07:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm I don't think you should have gotten all freaked out on her. Sit down with her and tell her how you feel about the whole thing. DON"T YELL!! Get her side of the story and find out why she got it done ... it is her body you know.
2006-09-25 07:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by mikecook987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see if she does not get infected. Probably not such a smart idea, this should be done by a professional. Once the wounds heal I would say enjoy!
2006-09-25 07:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by Peter G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now don't get upset. Attach a chain to each and play cowboy. Don't forget the whip. Have fun.
2006-09-25 07:04:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's her body man! Really regardless of what you think you don't have a choice in the matter. It's not like finances. She doenst need to council with you prior to acton!
2006-09-25 07:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U have a right to be upset.She should have told u first especially since its obvious its not something u love.But dont worry, try and get used to it
2006-09-25 07:04:24 · answer #9 · answered by bimby babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetly none of your business. You can be surprised but not hurt, insulted or even upset basically. You dont own or control her.
2006-09-25 07:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by Bastard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋