separating us. we see each other once in a while but we're not together.should i keep seeing him or should i try getting on with my life.when we're together it hurts because i want more but when we're apart it also hurts cuz i miss him so much. what should i do?
2006-09-25 06:54:00 · 9 answers · asked by lil m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you guys cant get it together after 5 years....I'd say its a wrap!
2006-09-25 06:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arrange a time to talk seriously and ask right out where u stand,depending on his answers be honest with urself about how much time u want to invest in this relationship. Put a time limit on how much time u will give. It is ur life make the most of it. Good luck Curious 2006
2006-09-25 14:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by Curious 2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get a new guy in your life to overcome your pain who can always have time to be with you. If a person wants another person, there is nothing keeping that from happening. I would go through the wall of heavan and the fiery pits of hell just to be with the special girl.
2006-09-25 15:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have invested half a decade into a realtionship that won't work. How much more of your life are you going to continue to bang your head against a wall?
You will NEVER be able to begin a quality relationship with a future soul mate until let go of this one.
2006-09-25 14:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with one of the previous posts...if you haven't been able to make it work in 5 years...it'll never work. I know from personal experience...as hard as it is...let it go and move forward with your life...don't wait around for someone who obviously doesn't want to commit...if a man wants to be with a woman, nothing will keep him from her. The "too many things separating us" is nothing more than excuses as to why he won't be with you. Spare your heart anymore heartache...take the lessons from the this relationship and move on.
2006-09-25 14:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by aak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fyou love something let it go and if it comes back it was meant to be---that somebody once told me and I have found that to be sooooooo true. Test the water and tell him what you want or it won t work.
2006-09-25 13:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by johnlothrop@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club Honey :o(
2006-09-25 14:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by M A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is wonderful and you dont FEEL wonderful so either he is the wrong guy and/or you really dont know what love feels like. move pn and find out!
2006-09-25 14:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by larry s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have a valid reason for leaving him, then do as u like. otherwise, keep goimg on with him
2006-09-25 14:02:47 · answer #9 · answered by broken_heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋