What do I do. i want to return. But seeing him there with his new pregnant gf really hurts me.
2006-09-25 06:53:36 · 20 answers · asked by Tiffany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to either go to a different church or just ignore him and his gf even though it hurts. You will eventually find a decent man. Just pray about it something like that shouldnt stop you from goign to church. Screw him and his pregnant gf. God Bless!
2006-09-25 06:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention a religion but I'm going to assume that you are a Christian and if I am correct I will say this...
You have two choices the way I see it. You can either be the good Christian and learn to fogive and continue going to the church you want to attend. Or you can move on to another church and always harbor a grudge against your ex which is not healthy for your faith.
If your not of a Christian faith then translate the above to where it will fit your faith. I believe most faiths believe in forgiveness. Even without faith harboring resentment is not healthy for your mental health.
2006-09-25 07:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either find a new church, or keep going to the same church and learn to get over it.
2006-09-25 06:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by Randy G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first that is a stupid reason to stop going to church bcoz you go to church to serve God and no one else, why don't u stop looking around for your ex in church and start concentrating on the reason why you went to church in the first place. i know seeing them together might be painful but it will be okay with time, just don't stop going to church
2006-09-25 06:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by lilykiss8 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Then go to another church or if that is not possible, go to your church and not sit near your ex/girlfriend and don't involve anyone in the drama.
2006-09-25 06:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by adamwitzhoops 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We must always pray! Lift your head up and return to church continue receiving your blessing. Just know that god has a plan for your life.
2006-09-25 07:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by mrsjamason2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to a different church of the same faith!!! Or if your church has different services go to a different service!!! Better yet GET OVER HIM and find someone new!!!! (maybe he'll feel the same seeing you with someone new???
2006-09-25 07:00:14 · answer #7 · answered by xxx69forall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show up anyway it can be the only way to get over it is by confronting it, or show up with a guy close to you, or just go to another church.
2006-09-25 06:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being with the same church with your ex should not stop you from going to church..you are not there because of your ex right? you go to church because of God so don't let your ex bother you! it will be normal to get hurt seeing your ex & his preggy girlfriend there but just learn to live with it! seeing you enduring the pain just to go to church will make God even more pleased with you..Ü
2006-09-25 07:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by -= Qtee =- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would talk with your pastor and see if he has any recomendations as to which would be a good church to go to.. don't stop going to church all together.. I understand about the b/f thing and it would be a distraction to you and you wouldn't learn anything... Switch churches
2006-09-25 06:56:35 · answer #10 · answered by ~***Holly***~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋