Bad sexual technique or bad interpersonal skills? Which one is easier to fix?
2006-09-25 06:43:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bad interpersonal skills. Some guys just dont get it...and that they think that just because all they want in a girl is their body, that they want the same thing in a man. Not true.
Bad interpersonal skills is easier to fix, because a guys sex addiction can never be fixed. It's almost like its in their blood.
2006-09-25 06:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know bad sexual technique is easier to fix.. when in doubt take the wheel if you know what I mean. Guys say they like aggressive women so get on top and get yours. Interpersonal skills are almost impossible to fix, unless he is a pushover, and who wants a weak man.
2006-09-25 13:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by onedzire27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interpersonal skill is more common but sexual tech. is easier to fix because you show them where and how and it should fall in normal after that. There is alot in the personal one takes lots of time to work it out or it never goes away.
2006-09-25 13:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the sex thing can be fixed b/c you learn to please the other one by talking and telling each other what you like. On the interpersonal skills, that could be tricky. Everyone comes from a different background/family and may not understand the other one as well. You have to take time and learn each other's boundaries, fears, etc. Then take it from there and hopefully both can work out their differences and respect one another.
2006-09-25 14:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad interpersonal skills is hard to work with. You may be able to guide them along with the S techniques but if someone is just terrible to others interpersonnally.... you surely have your hands full. And if the person does not see anything wrong with themself... then there simply is no point.
2006-09-25 13:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Tayo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both can be learned over time
what is more common? well probably interpersonal skills id say. if your a strong woman (or man) that knows what you want sexually you can teach them what you need and how to do it.
likewise with interpersonal skills i guess
2006-09-25 13:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you aren't seeking responses from guys, but I thought I'd share a thought or two.
I'm a little concerned that you perceive men's behavior as something you need to 'fix'. You have no idea how men pray that women accept them for who they are, and would stop 'fixing' them. There is nothing wrong with us. If you are with someone who turns you off, either sexually or interpersonally, then find someone else. He's not the one for you. Please stop trying to mold us into what you would like for a partner. Find the partner that natually fits.
2006-09-25 13:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad sexual technique
2006-09-25 13:45:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad interpersonal skills....definitly harder to fix. Bad interpersonal skills can cause bad sexual skills when you think about it.... ;)
2006-09-25 13:47:04 · answer #9 · answered by 2nd Time Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are easy to fix it you have a open minded person willing to learn. However, you must have someone willing to deal with the issues and care enough to teach. More common, I am unsure, I have never really dealt with either one of these issues personally..
2006-09-25 13:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋