OK.. I have talked to this guy..mark.. On line since Feburary.. we stopped talking for months and I had forgotten about him.. Imoved closer to him. He found out and got in touch with me.. In those 3 months I moved and started college.. I just started dating Fred we have been dating for two weeks now.. Mark wants to meet me tomarrow.. What do I tell Fred?? Help!!
2006-09-25 06:43:47 · 11 answers · asked by ~***Holly***~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop for a minute. Make a decision. A bird in hand is always better than two in the bush. You've got to decide which one of the two makes yop feel happier and safer. For this, think of the extremes i.e. the best times with both and the worst. Now evaluate the happiest moments from the best times and most depressing moments during the worst times together with both of them on different ocassions. Trust me, at the end of it, you'll know whom you want to be with.
2006-09-25 06:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by ang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you had forgotten about mark, obviously you think too much of him. I would only talk to one guy. Trust me, if you talk to both it could get you into alot of trouble. It could end up hurting both your guys as well. Tell mark you just began seeing someone and want to see where it will go. If he really cares about you he will understand, in hopes it doesn't work out with you and Fred so he can have another chance.
2006-09-25 13:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which one do you like? I think you should be honest with Mark,
and tell him you're currently dating Fred? How involved are you
with Fred? Do you consider him your boyfriend, or is it casual
dating, where you're finding out where the relationship leads?
If it is casual dating, you can be honest and tell Fred about Mark,
and the fact that you might want to date him to find out which one
of them you like better. Ultimately, if you fall in love, you will have
to choose which one you would rather be with. Do you have
feelings for Mark? If so, are they stronger than your feelings for
Fred? Who do you like more? If you like them both equally,
maybe you should tell both of them, and give them both an
equal chance, until you prefer one over the other. I think you've
dug a huge hole if they both love you equally, and you both love them equally. It might be best to cut them both loose, if that's
the case instead of choosing one over the other.
2006-09-25 13:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by Answerer17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with them both! I would be leary of Mark tho...he had a chance and didnt take it..now he's back in the picture...something sounds a little off for me. I would stick with Fred but meet Mark anyways...just be honest with them both. No sneaking around or lying...it will catch up with you & you'll lose them both! Good luck!
2006-09-25 13:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to be a player it always come back on you
2006-09-25 13:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth
2006-09-25 13:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by bprice215 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell both of them that you are not faithful, and that you are not ready for any kind of comitted relationship...
2006-09-25 13:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by Soul-Unleashed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite both and have a threesoeme........they will both b down,trust me...........have to a DP on u.......then go for the dutch oven,one of my favs......
2006-09-25 13:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by Shnitzel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick which gut that you like better and go with him
2006-09-25 13:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by pink_kitty115 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy f uck both till your caught lol xxx
2006-09-25 13:45:45 · answer #10 · answered by robcostabrava@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋